i dream of my aunt who expires 2 years back.?

Question

my aunt expires she was very close to me she when she died i was not present as she was suffering from cancer she died of that .at that time she left our house with her family i dream of her every alternative day as being with her and stuff i also dream that i am crying badly in my dreams how could i stop these dreams coming to me plz help

Answer 1

First of all, do you constantly think of her in the day time? If so, then, you may have problems, you may need to see a therapist because it has been two years, the loss of her should be washed away unless something happened that caused you think of her even in day time.

However, if only night time, that means you only think of her subconsciously. The short term method is to suppress your feeling. Try to think about her 5 minutes right before you sleep. By suppressing your subconscious mind, she may not lurk into your dream. This may not work for every one though.

But deep down, the relationship between you and your aunt may have something to do with your dream. It is considered recurring dream, that means something is not resolved, once you resolve it, the dream may go away. Of course, the detail of the dreams will be better. But if it is different every time, then yes, go see a therapist, this may require long time healing in terms of your background and your issues.

Answer 2

Its obvious you are missing your aunt To stop the dreams do this ;; Tonight go in your bedroom and talk to your aunt just like when is she was alive in front of you She can hear you very well do not worry about that Tell her you want a good sleep night and ask her to not come to visit you in your dreams because its to disturbing Also tell her stay in Gods light you deserve that Try it and your dream should stop

Answer 3

u didnt say wat happened in your dreams, but by the sounds of it it is unpleasant.
Have you thought that maybe you are eating something weird before bed or not going to bed at your usual time. Sometimes your dreams can be disturbed by things like that.
These dreams could also be a sign that something is troubling your subconiousness. You should try to find out what that is.
Your aunt might also be coming to you as a sign of something.

I hope this helped a little and i hope your dreams stop bothering you.

[ps: Herbal tea before bed may help you to get a better sleep]

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Answer 4

It's ok. List you never had a chance to say good bye. But your not the only person out there that had to go thought this. The dreams you are have, is because you never had closer. You never said good by,or I love you.What I would do is go to her grave site. Or look at a pic of her. Or just thank of her in your mind. Tell her how you feel. Just because she is gone in the flesh. The sprite lives forever. No matter what faith you believe in. And it also could be her way of tell you it's ok, and she feels your pain. Talk to her she will hear you.

Answer 5

THAT HAPPENS SOME TIMES. AS U WERE VERY CLOSE TO HER, THE DEATHE EFFECTED U CYCOLOGICALLY.
if u relly very close to ur aunt then go to her home and stay with their family. u will see there wont be much persons remembering her all the time. now and then,it's ok for remember. but try to forget her. and when y are gong to sleep if u are a hindu then go for hanuman chalisa for no bad dreams. or u may think of any god before sleeping. and take his or her name repeatedly in ur mind. u will find u will asleep within no time and no bad dreams will disturb u .

Answer 6

most probably you have recieved a mental shock because of her death. your mind still yearns for her love and affection and you are missing her. the thing that would help you the most is if you talk to a friend or a family member that you are close to about how you feel about your aunt's death and what you are feeling. this would help you unload a lot of emotions. another suggestion is before you sleep imagine your aunt in a place where she would be peaceful and happy and without any pain and suffering. i am sure that she would not be happy to see you being tormented because of her.

Answer 7

Those are your emotions, memoirs of her which you often remember,try to let go off her as she is already dead and well up in heaven and resting in peace , you have to carry on with your life , your memoirs will jnot only torment you but will hurt your aunt as well whereever she is !!!!!!! No offence but this is Life goes on, Let her have her peace and you have yours , I know she might have bin dear to you but one day or the other you are going to have the same fate so until that time jsut chill out dudue , finally you will meet her!!!!
As it is said there's none a house where there isnt a dead and where there isnt a mournerr!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

You can talk to some genuine Astologers. You can also meet some Psychologists.
You can read Gita and pray God to liberate the soul. While sleeping, keep a music player on, with the mantras of Gayatri or Gita or else. Daily worship god and pray for the peace of the soul.

Answer 9

This is common, dreaming of such mishaps. It is disturbing, get more occupied, try to live to their goals and achieve what was wanted by them.

These haunts are no different and it is not strange, this is there for every one. Time willcure and heal the loss.

Dont worry.

Answer 10

I still dream of my mom and she has been gone 13 years.No bad omens you just miss her.Saying goodbye to her grave site helps.My dreams are now much more pleasent .I actually look forward to seeing her and hearing her voice.Make your aunt proud by living life to the fullest.