so im in a relationship but he hasnt made it official but we live together make love argue like relationships do..we were together the first time for 2 years and broke up for 2 years and he came back to me and things have been great...i love him and i know he loves me...what should i think
2007-11-27 17:26:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you are living with him and still aren't sure, you're not in a relationship. Ask him where you stand!
2007-11-27 17:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've already been down this road with him before...did he make it "official" then?
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Maybe he will again once he's convinced it won't end like the last time.
I think you both should think long & hard about why you ended things last time, after two years, and what you both need to do to avoid it this time as well.
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It's never just one person's fault. It it was... the innocent party would never give the quilty one a second chance.
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If he didn't make it "official" the 1st time after two years and you're wanting to do more then play house this time around...then you need to have a long talk with this guy and let him know what you want from him and when. Those 1st 2 years do count for something. If you want children...don't keep investing time into a relationship that women don't have to waste.
2007-11-28 01:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kaye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off im happy for you even tho i dont know you thats the green monster on my back. :) and i think that you should just give it a little bit more time and see what happens if its destined its destined dont rush things unless you know for a 100% you are both ready for this type of commitment
2007-11-28 01:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you have plan to get married?
if you really love each other, you dont have to be paranoid, have faith in your relationship if you want to be forever. it doenst matter if you broke up and get together again what matters is, you are both happy and feel contended despite of what happened. God bless!
2007-11-28 01:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wonder why you are playing house without the marriage.
2007-11-28 01:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the next step would be marriage. You should move onto that step.
2007-11-28 01:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he thinks about making it official,if you don't ask you don't get,if you don't like the answer,ask yourself is it really what you deserve,or should it be with someone who truly wants you.
2007-11-28 01:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by carolinewood1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur heart is speaking that t's the right man and if u can tolerate with him for long years and he can tolerate with u and understand ur feelings,........... go for it.
2007-11-28 01:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by lechu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋