he says it gives him pleasure when i bite, spank, and tie him up, its really weird. he wants me to be more rough or violent with him when we make love. he also wants me to role play that im punishing him and call him names. but i'm afraid i might hurt him.
2007-11-27 17:04:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol.. thats funny
my girlfriend just started asking for that kind of stuff
it kinda freaks me out!
but whatever, it could be fun =P
and you wont hurt him, no worries
even if you did, could you imagine how funny of a story that would be to tell? hahaaha
2007-11-27 17:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by ALEX!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really new to you, take your time and tune into how you're reacting to it all. If it continues to feel one-sided, then his kink is not yours, and the lack of equal consideration is going to create real problems in the relationship. Insist he respect you through the process and do his best to give you the time and support you need to discover for yourself if you like it too or would honestly rather not do it at all.
I hope you give the play a fair shot - there's a lot of folks out there who have discovered the pleasures of doing things a little differently than mass media leads us to believe is possible... or normal. It has to be mutually consensual to be healthy and satisfying. The mutual part is what seems to be missing, here. Good luck to you both.
2007-11-27 18:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by normalweirdo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's OK believe me some guys really enjoy it and like it when their girl does that. Some guys like for a woman to be in control and take charge, heck I do. I like it when a woman takes over and makes me do what she likes and things that make her feel good and in control. Some guys like to be spanked I never have or did, but some guys think it's a turn on. Believe me you wont hurt him, he will really enjoy it and will love it if you order him around and make him do things to and for you, like make him crawl to you, kiss your feet and so on. It's not weird or anything there are a lot of guys that like that. It's good that he feels comfortable enough to share that with you. If you do not like it or if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you should talk to him about it. Don't be afraid, the goal is to make it to where you both enjoy it and have fun with it. =)
2007-11-27 17:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hurt him in a way he doesn't like, he'll tell you. As long as you don't go for the crotch (unless he specifically asks) it should be all fine.
If you're worried, that's understandable but you can get over it.
If you don't like it, that's understandable too, but it might mean the end of the relationship.
2007-11-27 17:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what he wants sweetie...some thing do hurt soooo good...but i'd rather be doing the spanking than the one being spanked...but he has a submissive fetish and wants you to be the dominant one....if you're into that kind of thing then give him what he wants...he'll let you know if you go too far, but my advice to you is smack that as*s and treat him like a bad little boy and he'll be begging at your feet for more.....
2007-11-27 17:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty common. I think there are alot of women that like it too. I don't like it myself (it makes me laugh when they have tried it on me) but I can do it to women OK if it floats their boat. Anything is OK as long as you are both OK with it. I had a GF that wanted me to slap her face. I didn't feel comfortable with that, so I never did it. Sorry chick. *LOL*
But I have a lot of kinky stuff about me too, so I try not to draw lines where they don't need to be drawn.
2007-11-27 17:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by tallcowboy0614 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not fun for you, you should probably get out of the relationship, because he's always gonna be into this kind of stuff.
It's not for everyone - I know I've never been interested in it.
2007-11-27 17:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fun. What's the question?
2007-11-27 17:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a bat and beat the crap out of him while having sex...ha
As the other dude said before, "whatever floats his boat."
2007-11-27 17:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by C47V3779 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bet he likes hentai
2007-11-27 17:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Line 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋