I need serious answers please! Okay so me and my sister are known are always attached at the side. And we have always been best best best best best best best best friends for my whole life! and no one knows me as me they now me as me and my sister. So she is like the meanest ***** you could ever ask for a sister know and she is like 14. She is so mean to me most of the time and I am losing my mind!!!! I have no idea what to do she has the lame teenage mind th at she doesn't ever ealize she is alwatys the 1 who starts it! And I am so mad I am considering moving to my grammas house so i don't have to live with her! (I am just barly 13 like 2 days ago and i still think like a kid) so I can't move cuz i'd miss my mom 2 much! Pleez help me I need advice please i don't now what to do! Thanx!
2007-11-27 15:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by MargoIsICONic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My gramma lives in washington. its is like on the other side of the country but thanx for trying
2007-11-27 15:58:00 · update #1
Even tho you are 13, you might be able to affect your sister and others by setting an example of how you want to be treated and in the way you treat others (even if they 'start it'!).
It seems that you do not really know what a 'best best best friend' is! Look it up!
To me, a best friend is someone who treats you kind, honest, lovingly, with loyalty and respect ALL THE TIME - not just when they feel like it. A best friend is ALWAYS there for you, tells you the (kindly) truth, backs you up, encourages you, supports your interests and efforts, gives you as much as they can, accepts you as you are and NEVER LETS YOU DOWN unless it's unavoidable.
And, when a best friend fails you, they will apologizes for their mistakes and bad behavior and resolve to do better so that the trust and love between you stays strong and gets stronger.
This is just a little of what a best friend is and it's up to you to learn more of what a best friend is and then BECOME ONE YOURSELF!
start here
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
2007-11-27 17:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consult with your mom. If you mom feels the same way then you should request for her to handle the problem. When your sister makes you upset spend couple days with your grandma. You don't have to move in with your grandma spend over night when your sister becomes a problem.
If you really want to solve this problem, perhaps you can do something nice for her. Buy a small present and a friendship card. In your card write down how hurt you are by her actions and how you want to have a close relationship. Place her present on her bed. Keep your sister in your prayers. God bless.
2007-11-27 15:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with a sister of mine. Honestly, the best thing is to just ignore her, when she starts to start a fight with you, or makes a rude comment, go to your room and punch a pillow instead of getting mad back at her and yelling. Ask your mom if she can enforce any rules that your sister will get in trouble if she's mean to you. Don't let her get to you, it's exactly what she wants.
I hope that helps at least a little! =]
2007-11-27 15:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by ;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off from her. In time, she will realize that she's pushing you away from her and she'll come and apologize. I had the same problem with my sister when I was your age. I stopped coming around her and the only words I would say to her is hi and bye. When she realized I wasn't holding long conversations with her, she apologized to me and right now today we're the best of friends.
2007-11-27 15:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by pooh_87_ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down.
Two days from now you'll have forgotten what this was all about.
2007-11-27 15:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
they're immature and think they know everything
2007-11-27 15:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋