well lets start with the beginning i was always my partents favorite(not being mean to my sis) but all of a sudden my sister has been acting like me, talking like me, just being me!!! and now my parents are starting to be all favority with her.
i feel i am jelous and i know i am. but what should i do my sister is imitating me and i want to be me again (if you know what i mean) so is there anything i can do!!!
please help and thank you!!! And do you know why she is doing this and when she might stop i know you dont know her but please guess thankyou
-NIKKI♥™
2007-11-27 15:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by Nikki <3 pinky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my sister is older tahn me to those who think she is idolizing me i know it isn't it is way something else i just do not know what
2007-11-27 15:43:00 · update #1
What a shame that you parents have FAILED so badly at teaching you kids to be loving and respectful instead of training you both to be jealous and antagonistic!
Instead of working on stopping your sister's behavior, maybe you could SET AND EXAMPLE by treating her (and others) as you would like to be treated - kindly, respectfully, lovingly, etc. You could be the first person in your family to take on new and respectful behaviors even if none of them ever do. This respectful behavior in you will be a great benefit later in life.
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2007-11-27 18:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by jimrich 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be YOU???
YOU are a very little immature girl who is worried about being mommy and daddy's favorite and worried about your little sister immitating you.
I know I wouldn't want to be that.
What YOU should WANT to be: Someone who is proud that her little sister idolizes her so much. Someone who isn't SO INSECURE that she needs to feel like she needs to be mommy and daddy's favorite. Someone who is so AWESOME that she is more worried about how her parents' favoritism might make her sister feel bad so she does everything she can to ensure that her parents treat her AND her sister equally.
2007-11-27 23:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously your sister figured out what it takes to get your parents attention. (With your help I might add)
Immitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
You created the monster, so now you have to figure out how to exceed yourself.
2007-11-27 23:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋