I'm having troubles trying to figure that out I love them both but feel that one of them is playing mind games with me while the other has been on my mind for 9+ years and has my life plan that Ive dreamed about I know this is hard for you to understand but I don't want to be a polligionist which meens have more than 1 wife but I do love them both but I am sort of scared knowing I have to pick one or the other It seems like the 2nd love just says to me **** me and just wants sex if I marry I need to fall in love with the person and not just there body I don't want to base my marrage on just lust and have a kid this is quite possibly the most difficult decision of my life ones jewish and the other unknown and Im buddhist/christian so none of us are mormon but I have very strong feelings about these 2 in particular any suggustions???
2007-11-27 14:10:46 · 5 answers · asked by fasbdaiu d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Who says you need to get married to either of them?
If you have strong feelings for more than one person, then that should be GIANT red flag to you that you aren't ready to settle down. Try dating a few more women and see if there isn't someone out there you are more compatible with.
BTW, it spelled polygamy and mormons quit practicing it over 100 yrs ago (well, excet for some small offshoot sects of mormonism that aren't part of the main church anymore).
2007-11-27 14:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by redessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I agree with Kirsty that there is no such thing as Buddhist/Christian. I must also make the correction that people who practice Judaism do not believe Jesus is Messiah, so there is also a difference between Christianity/Judaism as well. And I definitely agree that this is the root of your problem. Get your spiritual life figured out first and DO NOT EVEN THINK OF GETTING MARRIED!! You're just headed for a divorce. Stay away from both women and figure your life out first. It's very selfish of you to put them in this situation. Please don't marry either one.
2007-11-28 00:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Etrnlife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The spiritual aspect of your intimate relationships is key. There is no such thing as Buddhist/Christian because Christianity is exclusive to other religions. Christianity is a Jewish religion and so I would think you would have the best chances in marriage with the Jewish girl if you agreed to worship the same God and Messiah. Stick with the Bible (even The Complete Jewish Bible) and you will be okay.
2007-11-28 00:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by kirstycristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you even get in this situation. do these ladies know that your with both of the, because if not then im sure if they found out the decision would be easy because they would both leave you. honestly i dont think you deserve either because you say you lvoe them both but eyt your cheating on them and breaking their hearts.
2007-11-27 22:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by bebe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to 'choose' then you may not be ready to marry either of them yet.
2007-11-28 00:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋