I really like this boy but he isn't cute and when ever i think i like him i change my mind again and then my friend found out that i liked him and i dont see it just changes. he told me he liked me but for some reason it feels to strange right now what do i need to do?
2007-11-27 13:29:56 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey thats my point as soon as i would be his girlfriend it would fell akward and if i wasnt i liked him again
2007-11-27 13:33:08 · update #1
i am confused! plz help
2007-11-27 13:34:44 · update #2
i dont care what my friends think i just dont know what to do
2007-11-27 13:37:24 · update #3
i have the exact same problem. thats so weird, but waht io did was that i stayed friends with the guy because he was nice and i like him as a friend. but i couldnt date him and i know its whats on the inside... but i dont want to be embarassed or ashamed of him, it would ruin out friendship. you cant help who you want, and its not him.
2007-11-27 13:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by jessimae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated this girl once, who had an abnormal nose and braces once, and trust me, I think she was the best thing that had happened to me at that time...later on I dated another british ex-model, she was gorgeous, but conversations with her were impossible, I couldn't get out with her and other friends without getting embarrassed because of what she used to say....
so I think you should give him a chance, "you can't judge a book by the cover" and if he told you that he likes you, it's even better, caz now you know that if you go on a date and you fell for him, it wouldn't be a one-side feeling, but mutual...
I say go ahead and give him a call, plus, what is there to lose? it'll be only one date if he's not what you thought he is...
2007-11-27 13:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by pride_rock21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be hard but you have to talk to him about. No matter how hard it is you maybe should ask him out maybe. It depends how old you are. I was 10 when I had my fist real boyfriend. But I was a little young so I would go with at least 12 of 13. Hope this helps sorry if it does not.
2007-11-27 13:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by pinkshark12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been threw this situation many times...okay 2. But my answer er solution was to just stay friends with him. And then I knew more about him. I figured out later that we were only meant to be friends. But still after 3 years I get this little jolt of romantic electricity for him. But thats okay because it's kind of nice having that friend by your side.
2007-11-27 13:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by bridgeey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide where your priorities are... if good looks are a must for you in a relationship (and that's understandable), then you should cool it with the "liking him" stuff, at least outwardly, and continue to just be friendly.
If you'd go for his amazing personality despite not thinking he's hot, then tell him you like him back.
Just don't act on an impulse and then figure out you can't deal with your decision, and inexplicably end up dumping him super-quickly.
2007-11-27 13:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Marj 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you might like him but because you dont think he is very attractive your letting that get in the way which is causing you to change your mind the sudden change of heart maybe because your focusing on what others will think..its good that your not only interested in looks if you know he likes you dont be afraid to talk to him its nothing wrong with a casual convo to see where his mind is and if he has potential
2007-11-27 13:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sum4Easy? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your feelings go on and off for him and you need a little more time to think about it. Wait a few weeks, and see how much you've liked him in that time span. Maybe you'll realize your real feelings about him in that time...but don't rush it. I always liked boys a little more when I found out they liked me but it shouldn't happen that way.
2007-11-27 13:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just want a boyfriend and your going for him because:
1. you want to try something new, so look at a guy that doesn't appeal to your shallower side thinking it will mean something different about his character.
2. since he "isn't cute" you think that it would be easy to get him to like you (which it seems it was).
but no matter which, when you start to get close you wrong about because you know you don't like him but can't figure out why.
2007-11-27 13:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by bloodwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for guidance and it sounds like you're in middle school so if i were you i would just leave it alone and focus on my school work you're probably never gonna see him again and youre probably gonna hang out with him a while your gardes are gonna go blop and it will be over before you know it and he wont be there to pay for your bills whenyour older
2007-11-27 13:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Eli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill out first of all calm down judging from this writing id say that you are around middle school or early high school ok just calm down go with the flow and ull me fine if it works out it works out if it doesnt it doesnt ok its will not be the end of the world ok if you like him and he likes you then it will all fall into place guess what if you dont kno how you like him then chill out no big moves ok but you might have to take a change to find out after a while p.s. i kno how you feel it'll be ok!!!
2007-11-27 13:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by confusedchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋