2007-11-27 13:12:06 · 44 answers · asked by justme 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha thanks guys.. some of your answers made me laugh but a lot were really helpful :)
2007-11-27 14:31:20 · update #1
As a guy I would have to say...YES. But that's mainly because women are so cryptic about everything to begin with. It's just easier for us to wait til it's shoved under our nose than to take a hint and be wrong about it.
2007-11-27 13:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey T 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I see personally each day with my brother and dad that often they know many things, but that play dumb to keep from having to do " too much". They claim to be smart at other times however. As far as signals, guys are often comletely oblivious. They miss everything. However, you can't blame them, us girls can be pretty complicated and ever changing. Usually you do have to spell things out for guys, subtlety is lost on them. And if that's what you've been doing, it's time to be more direct. THey will appreciate, because likely they've missed things before, and felt stupid when some woman was kind enough to tell them that they were clueless.
2007-11-27 13:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nani 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Clueless about everything? NO.
Clueless about women? YES.
Under the nose in big block letters.
Just tell us what the f*ck you want.
We don't want clues, we want instructions.
We want to be your hero.
Not your cryptographer.
Not your psychologist.
Men think differently. Most understand each other,but few are adept at navigating the ornate emotional mine field that is the typical female psyche.
So if you expect a guy to speak female (Does this dress make me look fat?) he will usually seem clueless, learn to speak male (Honey, I need you to tell me I'm sexy.) and the clever fellow will almost always oblige you.
Hope this helps.
2007-11-27 14:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. They are "clueless" until you shove it right under their abdominal area. Then they have the meaning of life in the bag!
2007-11-27 13:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by bjstree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends but guys are pretty dumb. I know cuz I am one. haha Also relize there are some crazy girls out there. A lot of time i "miss read" girls simply because all girls are different in regards to how much they trust guys. lol one night recently a big group my friends decided to head out to a club in scottsdale. I had a great time with a good friend of mine. We flirt back and forth all the time. make out some nights.. its a weird but great friendship. well she wanted me to spend the night that night but with the the consistent flirting in the past sometimes us guys need to just be told strait up LOL. LOL i started to fall asleep on her couch and she laughed at me and told me to get in her room HAHA.. so yeah us guys need a clue but i think its because we are consistently asking our selfs... What does "that me".. we over think things... sometimes under think.
2007-11-27 13:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse A. Green 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I aint clueless. some people might not notice anything for half of the time but not me. But i dont know how to rap like everyone else or something. I aint " da bomb" or "tight" or whatever you guys use. I use 1950's slang.
2007-11-27 13:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well yes - except for the 5 yard overtime rule
2007-11-27 13:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by S. J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Men definitely need things spelled out for them, even then they often times miss the message.
2007-11-27 13:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by jdubbubble 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They don't take subtle hints or read between the lines very well. Men are not like your girlfriends. Just come out and say what you mean and don't expect them to know if you don't.
2007-11-27 13:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey. You moved all of your things out and left no forwarding address. Did I miss something?
2007-11-29 07:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋