I recently met this girl online, and she makes my heart melt like butter. She keeps asking and asking to meet, and we have clicked so well. We really enjoy talking to each other, and there is definitely a connection. However, Im kind of nervous, because I have never met anyone offline before. She lives an hour from me, and she is 18 and I am 19. Is it a good thing to do this or what??
2007-11-27 11:11:48 · 23 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, guys!! I have talked to her on the phone several times, shared several pictures, and we text millions of times daily. We even did a yahoo photo sharing deal.
2007-11-27 11:21:31 · update #1
Sure, give it a try. The worst that could happen is that she's a guy. I hope it works out for ya!
2007-11-27 11:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have met some people on line, and then met them in real life, some have been good and some have been so so. I have never had a bad experience so far, but I have met up with them in a busy place with allot of people. It's good because in the event it's not what you like or want, you can get out that mother without the awkward glances that you would get at a coffee shop. Also it's good in the rare event this 18 year old hottie is a 45 year old man, but chances are slim to nill. But I would go into it having some conversation pieces, or something close to what you talk about on line, that way you can live up to what she has come know you as on line. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-11-27 11:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met plenty of ppl off of myspace,just make sure you meet in a very crowded place like the mall or the movies,I am meeting someone of a webcam chat after Christmas that I have been chatting with online for almost 4 months,my friend Dan just met a girl that he had been chatting with online for 5 years a week ago,flew across the country to meet her,and he came back alive.So good luck and I hope everything turn out good.
2007-11-27 11:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by EmptynessOfTears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are a little young for this.
i really don't think you should meet her in person unless you've spoken to her on the phone. don't give her your number -- ask for hers. if she's that serious about meeting you, she'll give it to you. have a few conversations on the phone before you decide whether or not to meet her in person. think long and hard about it. if you do decide to meet her, do it in a busy public place, like a coffee shop or a restaurant. it's best if you can make it a group thing too -- tell her to bring a friend and bring one of yours. if you hit it off in person, then you can consider having an actual relationship with her.
if at any point you have doubts or your gut tells you it might not be a good idea, walk away.
2007-11-27 11:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't meet offline, you really have nothing but an online friendship. So if you want more than just a pen pal, you MUST meet offline eventually. It doesn't have to be right away, but it has to happen. If you are looking for support that it can work out, I'll give you one... I have been happily married to someone I met online for over seven years! We didn't get married online, I'll tell you that much. :-)
Good luck!
2007-11-27 11:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it's not some little kid playing a joke on you. I guess it might obviously be a joke if they said, like, to meet them in St. Louis and you lived in Reno, NV. Have you talked on the phone yet? If not, you might want to start with that.
2007-11-27 11:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you have the best of intentions, as well as the same intentions, I think there's nothing wrong with it at all. You won't truly know how things go until you meet her.
2007-11-27 11:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Crowded public place
2. Bring back-up. especially if she doesn't want someone else there. Bring someone & tell them to be a few yards away, so you won't be kidnapped or anything. I know it sounds silly, but there is always someone bigger than you. And you'd be surprised what mental instability can do to a person.
2007-11-27 11:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you each should drive half way and meet in a public place.Many people end up working out great after meeting on line.But remember long distance relationships are hard.Good luck
2007-11-27 11:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you, depending on how much you like her. if you really want to meet her, the first time you might want to make it a group thing and take a few friends. i know that makes meeting her awkward, but it's safer. good luck!
2007-11-27 11:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lew97531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋