My girlfriend wants me to beat her?
she wants me to be REALLY violent.
i'm a nice guy and normally i would never hit a girl but she kept begging me to. she wants me to be violent and angery
the other day i agreed to it and the sex was amazing, but i didnt feel right. i thought i hurt her too much but the next day she said she was disapointed that i hadnt broken her ribs.
i feel really bad about it, even though its what she wants.
its not just sex that she wants me like that. she said i should yell at her, hit her, and call her a b itch every day.
i really hate doing it, but i like her and i dont want to lose her
she also wants me to promise i'll never do it again and apologize
but then when she does something little, like call me sir instead of master, i should get really angery, insult her, and hurt her
she's like this because her father abused her and raped her
he's locked away now
i dont know what i should do.
what would jesus do?
2007-11-27 11:11:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Your girlfriend isn't Ann Coulter by any chance?
2007-11-27 11:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Jesus KNOWS and UNDERSTANDS the heart, mind, soul, and physical histories of everyone. Jesus would have compassion for your mentally troubled girlfriend. Your girlfriend needs majority therapy and you as well, since you admit "knowing" it is wrong and goes against everything within your heart and mind and especially knowing that her abnormal relational and sexual behavior stems from an abusive childhood, yet you willingly concede to her aberrant predispositions and participate in furthering her aberrant sexual trauma.
Psychologically speaking, women who were abused as children almost ALWAYS seek out and attach themselves to a man (men) who most closely parallel their fathers psychological and physical predispositions.
There are some wonderful Christian abuse counselors who can help her. I would seek them out.
2007-11-27 11:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably a joke, however, my previous GF had similar tendencies. Wanting to address me as master, wanting to be punished etc. It's not uncommon. Studies show that women fantasise more about being dominated than than they do about dominating. Opposite for men.
Evidence of a patriarchal society.
2007-11-27 11:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by mam2121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's trying to get you into trouble. I would take her to a psychologist, she needs some help. Good luck and don't hit her anymore! ;)
2007-11-27 11:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Peterbattahoggabatta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want to, then don't beat her, plus you are enabling her
Talk about it and if she doesn't love you for your choice then it isn't that great of a relationship
2007-11-27 11:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Cheatteen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't Jesus be angry because you had sex before marriage?
On the other hand, maybe she needs a therapist.
2007-11-27 11:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Yoji~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend has some issuuues!
Just kidding.
Just kidding.
Idk.
Sorry.
I love you all!
<3
2007-11-27 11:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He would dump the crazy b*tch. A little S & M is fun but this is nuts!
Good luck!
2007-11-27 11:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You got a problem
2007-11-27 11:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jennie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jesus would get a new girlfriend.
2007-11-27 11:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋