We met like 2 years ago after chatting on yahoo for a while.
He seemed too frisky the first time we met so I didn't call him
back or get on messanger anymore.
The other day I got online for a second and he messaged me.
He said that he had been looking for me these past 2 years and has tried dcalling me old numb. I didn't believe him so I asked him what my old number was, he got it right.
I hung out with him the other day and he said while he was being all touchy feely before, that he did like me and there were more sides to him. He kept talking about all the ways he searched for me online and e-mailed me periodically.
Yet again he started and I left him hanging.
He hasn't text me in past few days. I asked him how he was doing and he said he had fun but he felt stupid. I asked why and he said that "You know why"
Should I give him a chance?
Is he just after me for play? I didn't do much with him but I am generally more conservative than that.
2007-11-27 09:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he waste his time trying to find you for two years if all he wants is some booty? He could get booty anywhere. Maybe he actually has some kind of real feelings for you.
2007-11-27 09:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you are conservative and you want him to respect your values.
Then what? Give the guy a chance he's obviously interested in you when guys fall then usually for real hard and this is what you've wanted all this time. Keep stringing him out any longer and chances are he will lose interest. Trust me most times being on the other side ( where the girl loves the guy who doesn't reciprocate) is bloody frustrating SO when it's the guy who loves you i would say take it and run.
Good luck and good love :) I am happy for you!
2007-11-28 08:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Yana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him a chance. he must really like you a lot to spend so much time looking for you.
2007-11-27 17:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon 2Be S, Dear stay coservative,casual intimacy can scar you. This day and age sex can killl !
2007-11-27 17:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him know that you think hes too grabby. You dont feel comfortable being like that just yet and when you are, you'll let him know.
2007-11-27 17:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by short_n_sweet70301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say he's only looking for action, but if he wants to hang out with you he needs to learn to keep his hands to himself and take it slow...if he's willing to do that then go for it, but i would take it slower than normal just to see if he's willing to see and not touch
2007-11-27 17:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by prplfae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and go with your gut feeling.be careful
2007-11-27 17:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Red M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be careful...if he just chatted with you for a while and looked for you for two years, then....well....
go with your gut feeling
2007-11-27 17:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by xjOjOx63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him give him a chance
2007-11-27 17:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him what you are comfortable with.
2007-11-27 17:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Enrique A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋