2007-11-27 08:45:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
ur takin the piss rite !!!
2007-11-27 08:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's not that 5 years is too big an age gap, but rather at what point in time the age gap comes. A 20 year old guy will want a different sort of relationship to a 15 year old girl perhaps - he will want something intimate and you are underage. My daughter's partner is 10 years older than her but it doesn't cause me concern because they are both mature people. You may think you are "mature" - but no 15 year old is really. Perhaps in a few years time it will seem more appropriate.
2007-11-27 09:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 years is not a big age gap. but when someone is 15 and the other person is 20 it matters, not because of the age gap but because of the places in life these two ppl are respectively. A 20 year old is in college or if he or she is not in college, he or she is in the working world. and a 15 year old is just in high school. I guess what im trying to say that at this moment they dont have a lot in common. Maybe when one is 25 and the other one is 20. thats is not a big deal. I hope you understand what I wrote.
2007-11-27 08:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by GIOVAN R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think 5 years is a big gap, but 15 is a little young for a 20 year old.
2007-11-27 09:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say 5 yrs is not a big gap when your older but the ages you are it is a big deal. i know you probably feel very mature and think you have lots in common but this person is either immature or just wanting sex or to control someone. you probably felt mature at 11 or 12. and think back now to that age you have probably learned alot since then. well thats how you will feel when you are 20, you will know you were immature at 15. when you are an adult you have a whole different world of responsibility, you can't share this with a 15 yr old. i think its a bad idea.
2007-11-27 08:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by nicole21cherie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, a 20 year old guy wouldn't want his 15 year old sister hanging out with him would he?
He is an adult, where as you (im assuming it's you) are still a child in the eyes of the law, despite how grown up you may feel.
I'd find it worrying that a guy of this age is still interested in school girls, at 20 he's an adult and should know better and stay the hell away!
2007-11-27 09:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The issue isn't really 'age gap'. 15 year olds are better suited with their own age group. (Have past experience working with children/youth - voluntarily. And I'm concerned!
15 yr old = Teen (with lots of changes going on in their life, e.g. hormones, likes and dislikes, trends, life skills to learn, teen things to do).
20yr old = Adult (been through the teens, moving on in their adult life, and should NOT be seeking the affection of young Teens. And don't be fooled, will know how to manipulate 15yr old to do what he/she wants, e.g. Sex).
If Teen 18/19 - ok - as very nearer adulthood.
Even if 15yr old is a mature Teen, he/she is still a young Teen.
So advice is for Teen to stick with their closer age group; Adult to find an adult to go out with and 'get a life'.
NB: If a 15yr old is asking this question, this would suggest that there is doubt - follow the doubt, and get on with enjoying (and at times not enjoying) the ups and downs of teenagerdom with other Teenagers. Adulthood will come along soon enough!
2007-11-27 13:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by florette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always seems a big gap, when the younger is below the age 16. My husband is 6 years older than me, and no-one makes a fuss over that. If you was 16 then it wouldn't sound or look so bad. Cos 20 year olds want more than just holding hands.
2007-11-27 08:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would say, it is quite a big gap when the 15 year old is still so young. I think it is best for teenagers to go out with other teenagers.
2007-11-27 08:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jude 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe how ignorant and abusive some people have been to you.You ask a question about a relationship and they assume you are having sex.Says more about them than you really.Take a look around and you will see that there are thousands of couples 5 or more years apart in age and there's nothing perverse weird or otherwise about it.As long as he respects you and treats you in a caring manner it can grow in to as good a relationship as any other.I met my husband when I was sixteen and started going steady with him at seventeen.He is six years older than me.We married when I was 22 and he 28 and that was 29 years ago next month.I love him with all my heart still.Good luck,take care.
2007-11-27 09:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Misty Blue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it is. The 15 year old is still a child and still growing and maturing. If it was 18 and 23 that would be better because they would both be adults and about the same maturity by then.
2007-11-27 08:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋