Do men and women resent one another but afraid to voice it outloud?

Question

Like women have many jobs and a man has one and plays golf and a woman works 90 hours a week and a man works 40?

When they retire does the woman still clean. cook? iron and shop for groceries? When does she retire or is this suppose to be a labor of love when she pays half the bills?

Answer 1

Not really. My parents run the same company together the same way they have done for over 30 years. They come home every night, bicker for a while while they cook dinner (together - except that my Mum won't allow any frying done in her kitchen because of the smell - so she makes my Dad stand outside and barbeque every night. This would not be funny except for the fact that they still live in Scotland, so whenever I visit I am immensely cheered by the sight of my Dad in his overcoat, hat and scarf, barbequeing steaks in the pitch black and pouring rain).
After dinner they bicker some more over a bottle of wine and then turn in.
At weekends they either both play golf (at different clubs) or have the Grandkids over (in which case they call me in Miami on Monday morning to ask if I am going to have any soon).
The point I am trying to make is that not every relationship has to have such clearly defined responsibilitys. In fact for a relationship to work, both parties have to be able to mix up and share them as much as possible

Answer 2

Is that what you do at home? Wow, I obviously married the wrong person, since both her and I work. After work she goes off and rides her horse and I cook and clean. When I travel (which is often) I come back to an unclean house, which I get to clean. And then on top of that she also truly is the one in control of my sex life with her. So where did I go wrong, since I do not fit into your obviously biased statement?
And a resentment towards women, hmmmmmm..........let me see. All school programs are geared towards getting women into more scientific, mathematical and engineering fields, which is working quite well. With affirmative action, women are getting into higher levels of the work force, which is working quite well. However, the one thing that is forgotten is the men. I am not responsible for anything in the past, those are the sins of my fathers, etc. So why should I have to pay for that with being passed over or discriminated against in order to get women into higher positions in companies or more into Engineering schools? Where is the equity? And unfortunately as we are seeing now that women get into power, they are no different than the old boys network, where women are bringing women into their power clubs. So there is no balance, it is just that women can and do use the sexual discrimination card, which men can not. And especially North American women who want it all, the career, house, family, etc, but somehow are never happy with anything. Finally you are realizing that working for a living (which was so pushed for) is not really that much fun, but then once again the people who get blamed for your unhappiness are men as usual.

Answer 3

No, at least I don't. I work, and my husband is disabled(stroke). If I wasted my time on resentment, there would be little left for enjoyment. He helps where he can and I do the rest. It IS out of love. Try it sometime.

Answer 4

woman are bossy mean spirited and jealous of God
just kidding, i feel like acting like a chauvinist today...
If Worship no God but Me is translated to ....DIEU mais Moi., Couldn't the french and english God be the same
meaning
Me=IVI(sealed together)e(e=picture of arm)
Moi=IVI .n u i (sealed together)

because
O read within the letter is like an .n u when cut into 3
so read between the lines of a times new roman font
God and it equals Cu Tod
DIEU equals DI[iLU(seel you)

so if Tod's seel looked like DI it really was IIII I which was in roman numeral terms a IVI.
thus all four words seem to be a description of Tod(d).

finally some consistency in bibles.

and if allah= all ah and ah=lari (mixed up and sealed together)
then a third language is added to the mix because those who know Him also called Him a name pronounced lari.

factor in the Jews knowing Him as I AM.
I AM=I AIVI(sealed together) (a description of lari tod)
larri (cut & sealed together)=i am

and English, French, Arabians, Jews all had the same God?
what abou the italians? they described God as DIO. thus within thar word is DI.n u where the DI=IIII I.

So kneel before ZOD, i mean Todd. jking
but He does exist

Answer 5

I wish I had a guy in my life to resent! Just kidding!

When I was married, we pretty much shared household responsibilities. My ex pretty much took care of the yard, sometimes laundry. I did dishes and bathrooms. He did vacuuming sometimes.

Answer 6

I have a resentment towards men and I am not quiet about it. Its not because of the hours we work but because none of them cam seem control themselves when in the presence of a pretty woman.

Let me rephrase that. When in the presence of a pretty woman and I am not there and he vowed to be faithful to me.

Answer 7

I don't know what the solution is cause I don't like to clean and my girlfriend doesn't either so we live in a dirty house, dirtier by the day.
I think it comes down to who cares more about certain chores.

Answer 8

People that are insecure and put their egos into their gender resent the opposite gender

Answer 9

I only resent certain men (one's I know)
Everyone's different so I can't put them all into one catagory.

Answer 10

I resent men but it is not because of housework.