okay, before you guys start...
me and hub were talking.. he says he needs to lose the weight so our sex life can be better, and i said just make it bigger...i tend to say things the wrong way... i didnt mean it in a bad way.. i said it joking around...but he says that hurt..it was a low blow..
guys!? how would you feel?
2007-11-27 06:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not small, i said it messing around cuz it would be fun.. our relationship we joke around 24/7 and we dont know when to take eachother serious.. but yesterday i seen it in his face..
wow'.. maybe i should apologize! i didnt realize it was that bad!
2007-11-27 06:55:19 · update #1
geez'... i feel like i just got beat-up!
2007-11-27 07:03:08 · update #2
i'd probably beat you with a belt buckle...
2007-11-27 06:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by ken_kanith 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello there young lady! Yeah you really did it when you said that! From a guys point of view his package is a big issue and a sensitive one! If you say something like that it could ruin your love life because he will feel like he is not satisfying you ever when you both are intimate! I am not sure how to work that one out because his ego was just taken down a notch or two. I would feel crushed also!!! Good luck and I hope that it works out. Have a great day!
2007-11-27 06:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by rttamez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you hit him in an area that he is really sensative about. And trust me, if he wasn't insecure about it already, he would not have gotten hurt about it. Personally I am secure in what I have to work with. When me and my ex broke up she tried to hurt my feelings by making fun of my manhood, but she was being hurtful. I know that because getting the job done was never an issue, and I asked her if she was satisfied with that area of our relationship, and she said without a doubt that area was really good, just the relationship part needed work. But I think the bigger issue here is you joking about it. I don't want to dig into your personal life but maybe you are having issues with what he is not doing. I am not saying that he is not getting the job done, but it would seem to me you wouldn't ask if you didn't have the slights indication that he wasn't doing it as well as he could. So if that's the issue I would suggest that you doing flat out say to him that he sucks. Be subtle about it, have him try something new, or you suggest to him something new. He is your husband and at this point you both need to keep it fresh. Vanilla love making sucks, and every couple goes through it. So when you two are doing the deep, make a suggestion to him, like have him pull your hair, or have him put his hands on your neck and squeeze gently, not enough to hurt you , but just to give you both a bit of a thrill. I really do hope you both finda common ground on this. But again understand that you are both married to one another and the key to keeping things fresh is try new things in the bedroom. It's not everything, but it helps to keep your love going. Hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-11-27 06:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel like my wife was a skank and regret marrying such a woman that got around that much to compare.
I look forward to answering your question in the divorce section.
2007-11-27 06:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would want to divorce you for calling it a "pipi" then I'd really want to divorce you for saying it should be bigger. You owe him like 5000 blow jobs for that one.
2007-11-27 06:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by jonnyexcel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i cant believe u said that no wonder he got offended imagine if he told u that u need to get ur stuff fixed cuz it looks nasty u cant say u wouldnt get mad i say apologize cuz even though in ur relationship its jokin most of the time he probably took that one seriously
2007-11-27 12:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by fRi5k0 ChIck1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rename him Justin! Only insecure men worry the size of the penis. Real men use a Rabbit!
2007-11-27 06:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inadequate.
2007-11-27 06:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you married him it must not be an issue. I would laugh an put you on pipi punishment while i jack off in front of you.
2007-11-27 06:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by wayne0.074hauser 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell you to get a better look. maybe you were looking at it from too far away. and then i would tell you don't talk with your mouth full. then insert ***** in mouth.
or i would say it wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so loose.
2007-11-27 06:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would hurt my feelings and I would want to leave the building we we're in and leave you in the relationship.
2007-11-27 06:37:18 · answer #11 · answered by Dan the Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋