i met somebody on holiday, and ever since i came back ive been thinking about him constantly. i would do absolutley anything to see him again. and i know for definate this is no crush. i cry thinking about him almost everyday. i can't talk to anyone about this because they will all think it is just a crush when i know for definate that it is not so this is the only place. i have never felt this way before. he means the world to me even though it was just a holiday romance.
it has been 5 months and i am still feeling this way knowing that i am never going to see him again! this really hurts but i dont want to get over him because i love him.
2007-11-27 06:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Kristy,
I do not know in which continent you are from , coz thinking pattern differs place to place. Any how u have not stated that how closely you were been during the holiday.One think is sure even after 5 months u have been smitten by the cupid. honey if do u have any email id or any contact of that cupid try to be in touch with him . you can know that in which way he had taken that hoilday trip. Do not spoil your days & night thinking about the same . Life is beautiful & live it fully. U know many think will come to your way , do not get carried away .
2007-11-27 16:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by ceedam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the aching deep down in your being with the unfulfilled desires that you feel. Why are you not in contact with this person it sounds like more than a Holiday fling on your part? Or are you in love with the memory of the past romance so you do not feel rejection of someone you might be able to have a relationship with here and now.
Sometimes it's easier to have a relationship with someone on holiday because there's no pressure and no expectations but then you come home and that's all you can think of is that person could it be he really is Mr Right? Unless you seek the real answer to your feelings that burning desire will continue and can cause serious confusion and self dought. So my thoughts are either find him and address these feelings with him or find some one to fa fill the needs you have and go on with your life living in a dream will never produce anything but heart aches.
2007-11-27 14:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kdid49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say darl but I think it is just a crush aye. I mean Im not saying theres no such thing as love at first site but just take a step outside your circle, take a look at the big picture, breathe deep and be realistic. If you want him babe go get him. Nothings stopping you.
If you want something that bad youll find it. Trust me!!
All the best
2007-11-27 14:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only thing now is build a connection. Find people that knows him. Build a connection between those people until you find where he lives. From there, just work your magic. There should be people who would know him over the holiday. Just ask around.
2007-11-27 14:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love. U just need a reality check. U are so blinded by the signs it make me wonder if you're desperate for love. Slow down, what you are doing is causing youself to be in pain. Your life is not a movie, get up and stop thinking, start knowing what you want. Do you know his name? Do you know where he lives? Is he married? Is he taken? Does he love you, do you know for sure?? Think about that
2007-11-27 14:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by imalibrababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't want to get over him? Then you have two choices: one, hold on to the fantasy that you've created and be alone and miserable, or two, accept that not all romances are meant to last and move on with your life. Sounds like you love the drama of this.... keeps you from dealing with real life.
2007-11-27 14:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what your options are if you know you're never going to see him again. I suppose it depends on how old you are, how old he is, and how far apart you are. If it's important enough to both of you, the world is small enough that you could reconnect, online, and in real life.
It's difficult to provide a good answer here because I'm not sure exactly what the question is. Good luck.
2007-11-27 14:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have his contact info, contact him and tell him. If not...find him on facebook or myspace or something.
2007-11-27 14:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋