scared of dying?

Question

im constantly in fear of death. im not scared how it will happen, if it will be painful or n easy passing. but im scared of not waking up n never seeing everone i love ever again. im scared because in a way i dont want to be forgotten and never in anyones thoughts a 100years after im gone. when u die, is that it? are you dead. i hear u sleep until judgement day, does your memory live while your sleeping, what happens if god chooses u, and not a family member do u just forget them or do u morn because there not in heavan with u? im scared of never seeing anyone again.

Were you in any kind of fear a thousand years ago ? Of course not , we came from nothingness and will return to it .

i was about six when i started feeling this way.

Answer 1

I welcome death with open arms. You should too. Instead of living in fear, live for the day. Own everyday and make each your own. Love your loved ones with all your heart in this life because once you're dead, that's it.

Have a good life!

Answer 2

what you have my dear is a fear of the unknown. I think if your looking for a solution to your fear it has more to do with yourself. You need to just remember in all spirtual walks of life you will see that the creator makes all ok. Death is really just the next step of life think of a flower that blooms wilts and then grows back again if god can make all alright for something as small as a flower why would he not do that for you. Do not fear what is coming next because you will not enjoy what is happening now.

Answer 3

It is scary to think so if you have young kids to take care/make them self-sufficient, else all of us are just actors in the drama of life. We are not this body, but the immortal selves that would continue to experience in various forms and roles. Only experience and knowledge remains with the individual self.

Presence of an attribute proves the existence of a substance. Fragrance proves the existence of flower, smoke that of fire thus knowledge/individuality cannot exist without a knower(person/self). Our experiences are attributed to our Soul/Self, and that self is immortal. The idea of nothingness is flawed. Energy can neither be destroyed or created, they only transform, so does the matter (exploded stars became planets, saturn rings are bunch of rocks...), so existence is real though change forms.

Answer 4

Behold, I show you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, In a moment , in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trump shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
The above is from the Bible 1 Corinthians 15:51


You need to pray and find a church that you are happy in. They will help you to understand what is in the Bible.

Answer 5

we all will die someday; we can't change that but we can change how we live; we live a good life; make each day count ; time passes quickly; remember when you were younger ? Don't dwell on what will be someday and waste this day; you will never get this day, hour , minute; live life to the fullest; help others ; confidence comes when you know that you have no regrets; sounds like you are young; replace negative thoughts with happy ones; instead of thinking of dying; think of living; being with the ones that you love and who love you; build memories ; one day at a time; drop by drop of water, a bucket gets filled; one day; one good memory to replace a sad thought.

Answer 6

When you die and are saved you go to heaven. Time in heaven seems as to a minute as to 100 years on earth. You will morn for those you know and have not allowed themselves to be saved until the day of final judgement. At that time, all memory of those lost will be erased and you shall have no more tears.

Answer 7

No one that has walked this earth knows what happens at death, and nothing you can do during your life will change whether there is life after death, so it's best to get on with living and not worry about something that you cannot change.

Answer 8

I had a friend that passed away on an operating table and was brought back. When she left her body, she met this glowing being and felt this immense, great love. Then the being showed her the new baby, brought her back to her body and told her it was not time yet. She did not want to get back into her body because of the wonderful feeling she had with the being. She did come back, however, and now tells this story. She was a Christian, and met Jesus out of her body. When you pass away you can be with Jesus too. Click the link below to find out how:

Answer 9

Everyone dies. But not everyone lives. You're letting your fear of dying get in the way of living.

Why do you need to be remembered? I would think you would be more worried about the things you won't have a chance to experience because you spend your time concerned with death.

Answer 10

shouldn't you be scared of living than dying ? , living in this world makes a lot more scary than dying it self. live a nice good life , try what you don't try before but in good way , marry , have a lots of children and times come we have to face the reality sooner or later will die , so embrace the
death.
love and express your feelings and though to all of your love ones , so they'll not forget you even your gone in this world.

Answer 11

No one can give you comfort for what lies beyond the grave except someone who has been there for at least 3 days and come back to confirm the message. I personally know One who has.

I am not afraid of dying because my life is wrapped within the One who has the keys to death and the grave (Rev. 1:18). Like skindiving, your survival depends on what you wrap around you. If you wish to have eternal life, wrap yourself in He who is eternal.

Revelation 1:18
I [Jesus] am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen. And I have the keys of the grave and of death.

John 14:2-4
In My [Jesus] Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.

How to wrap yourself in eternity...

Accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior for the remission of sin.

Acts 16:30-31
“Sirs, what must I do to be saved?”
“Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved...”

Romans 10:9-10
If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

http://www.billygraham.org/SH_StepsToPeace.asp
http://calvarychapel.org/?show=TheGospel