Seriously, how can they legally let that happen? My friend's friend is a single male and he adopted a child ... and not just any child ... a female child. They usually don't let that happen, so I don't know how he got around the system. Its the most disgusting thing I've ever heard in my life. How can they legally let that happen? That sick bastard probably only wants it for one thing.
What's wrong with people these days?
2007-11-27 04:45:26 · 91 answers · asked by Ruby Girl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You think just because a man adopted a girl that he wants to get in her pants?
Maybe he just wants to be a loving foster parent. Ever think of that?
Using your reasoning, a woman shouldn't be able to adopt a boy either.
You sound like a real misguided biotch and pathetic simpleton.
What's wrong with people like you these days?
2007-11-27 04:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 57⤊ 6⤋
I think you've made a rude assumption here. Maybe the man wants a daughter!
One huge factor you may not have considered is that he may be gay. Homosexual relationships cannot produce children. And some people really want children. And yes, he may be single, but in a lot of religeous societies, homosexuality is thought of as something unnatural and wrong and he may be keepign his hands clean by not getting into a relationship.
Regardless of anything, people get broody and want kids. The "female child" may have just had the right personality and got on with him well. Don't make assumptions about people, it's incredibly rude. Just because he's a single man and he's got a child REGARDLESS of gender, does NOT mean he is a pervert.
I think you're being a little sexist here. Obviously the people who let him adopt the child thought him to be a reasonable parent.
So shut up, it's their judgement, which clearly is better than yours - do you run an adoption agency?
Don't assume things, he may be a perfectly nice person.
On the other hand, you might be right. But as a basic answer to "how could this happen?", he was accepted by the adoption standards agency as a reasonable and loving father and was given a little girl.
2007-11-27 04:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gnotknormal 3 · 8⤊ 3⤋
That does not make even a smidgeon of common sense!
Why would you automatically assume a man would only want a daughter so he can molest her?
Would you feel that way if a man gets custody of his own daughter?
Would you feel that way if a woman adopted a boy?
If an adult showed ANY sign that they wanted to adopt a child and abuse the child, NO child should be there. If your theory that he's a sexual predator or a pervert is true, are you saying it would be acceptable for a boy to be put with him?
And by the way, many MANY boys are sexually abused by adult males, as well.
Get over your hysterical high and come back to the land of common sense.
2007-11-27 05:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think the person that passes judgment is the one who should be judged themselves. For what sick reason would believe that a man cannot have a daughter to raise on his own? People do go through a long process before they can adopt a child.... It is most likely that he is not a child molester. I'd also like to know what is wrong with people these days.... people like you.....
2007-11-28 02:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sodie! 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think it's disgusting, is it alright for a single female to adopt a MALE child? maybe he really wants a child, why do you think it has to be gross - men have every right to adopt as women do. They obviously wouldn't let this man adopt a baby unless they found something wrong. there are a lot of back ground checks ect you have to go through to even get close to adopting. I think you should be happy someone was willing to adopt a child and want to take care of them. I don't understand why you think this is sickening.
2007-11-27 04:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
So automatically you think that he going to do something to that little girl?You are way messed up lady.Maybe he just wanted a little girl(just like most girls grow up to want a baby girl).I don't see nothing wrong with it.He gave a child a good home & your judging him..It is the SAME thing as you adopting a little boy.A man can raise a child just a well as a woman can.I think you need some help..What is wrong with people like YOU these days is the real question..
2007-11-27 06:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~ Ali ~*~ 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Woah, Got some hang ups about men there?
All men are not child molesters. Calm down, a man is perfectly capable of rearing a female child as a woman.
2007-12-02 07:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by mabuisakura 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What's wrong with you? You think that just because he's a single man, he wants to molest children? There are thousands of single fathers raising daughters, and doing a damn fine job at it. If that is the most disgusting thing you've ever heard, then you must have lived quite a sheltered life. Obviously, adoption agencies run a very thorough background check, and you are being an absolute bigot and an ignoramous to assume that his intentions are ingenuine. Go to hell.
2007-11-27 04:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by daniel 4 · 9⤊ 2⤋
I read 86 answers.. I have a strange question.. in today world a Dr and no wallowed by law to examine a child without the presence of his parents,... a day care teacher is not allowed to take a child to the bathroom... although I do believe like every body said, that he does not have to be a molester, and can be a good father... how come after a detailed check on Drs they are still not allowed to examine a child without his parents.. or so on.. so yes it is bizarre
2007-11-28 12:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like jealousy? You said this is your friend then you demean him . Its a great thing for a child to get a second chance at a good life, why do you think this is disgusting? Do you know something about this man maybe you need to tell the authorities so they can look into the matter, please if you know something about him tell someone don't just ask about it on yahoo answers, don't jeopardize this child's life if its going to be threaten or your just crazy and don't think men should be fathers.
My ex has my daughter at his house 1/2 the time doesn't mean he is wrong, she needs her father in her life.
2007-11-27 04:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by speclt1970 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
How do you know that what you are thinking is what is on his mind. The only people who think like that are the people who would do something like that? So what are you thinking. There are plenty of good men out there who can adopt female children. I'm a female and I would much rather adopt a boy than a girl. Why? I dont know, I just would, that doesnt mean I want to molest them. God sounds like you are the pervert!
2007-11-27 04:52:31 · answer #11 · answered by *~* Sexy Mama *~* 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋