okay i hv got a friend!!! we were friendz right from childhood now we r of 17(both)...don't know why but when i was just sitting in class after lectures were over she came n talked to me as normal!!! n then suddenly she pulled my towardz her n kissed me!!! eeeeewwww!!! don't know why she did it!!! now the main problem is that i don't know how to react now!!! should i stay away from her or what else??? plz tell me!!! heeeellllllllllpppppppppppp!!! m really dipressed!!!
2007-11-27 04:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her why she did it.
Politely tell let her know that you didn't appreciate it.
2007-11-27 04:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to throw a friendship that you've had that long out. You should talk to her and tell her that. You think she is an amazing girl, but you don't want to have a relationship and ruin the friendship and that you like her as a friend. She may be hurt a little at first, but if she's a true friend she'll still be your friend. Honestly the feelings will probably pass too. I've had a best friend since we were 5 till now and we are 24. We've both had crushes on each other at one point in our friendship. Never at the same time. The feelings did pass rather quickly as I looked at him and our friendship and realized that there are a lot of ways we'd never work out and that having him as a friend was way better.
The only reason for example I ended up crushing on my best childhood friend was at one point I was lonely, and he understood me so well and I loved hanging out with him. I started thinking well why not a relationship? The idea sounded great for a month, but then I realized it would never work and that being lonely and my best pal understanding me wasn't reason enough. The feelings disappeared and I wondered what I was thinking? So maybe that might be a reason in your case and the feelings on her side will probably pass.
2007-11-27 04:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by zaleplon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy in all things. If you value her as a friend, you should let her know that the kiss made you uncomfortable and that you are only interested in a plutonic relationship. You've been friends a very long time. You should be able to talk to her openly and honestly. Find out why she kissed you. (I'm guessing it was a "romantic" kiss and not just a friendly peck). She may have misread a sign or signal from you or she may have just been joking around. You'll never know till you talk to her about it.
2007-11-27 04:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by mrvid2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move as usual, but absorve every thing what she doing, why she doing and what are are the reaction for your normal reaction. obsorve all and basing on that you may change your closeness, because in future you should get suffiecient reason why you away from she? you would not feel mistake is from your side.
feel as first time and excuse all the best.
2007-11-27 04:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by graph g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it you dont like her in that way...you should let her know...but dont brake up the friendship...or baby you got caught off guard and are confused about ur feelings toward her...bcause you've been friends for so long..its okay if you wanna be more than friends...if not u should not ignore her but talk it out..
2007-11-27 04:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by lorennys2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye you should talk to her and see why she did that. She either likes you or it could have been a dare or something, you will never know unless you ask her why she did it.
2007-11-27 04:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by gemini<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes you...are you not ready for things like this? If you are not ready for anything like this, let her know you are not like that and she over step her place and not to do that again...let her know so she won't do it again...hey times has changed and some guys are fast and guess you were being too slow for her...just let her know!!!
2007-11-27 04:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by apricot4u2eat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that's really weird... it'd be weird even if it were a guy... cause it's so random... i'd say stay away from her, try to forget about it, pretend it never happened, and she should get the hint...
2007-11-27 04:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by N TigerPaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your straight and she is not i would stay away from her.
if the situation is exactly as described you will get
hurt and even more depressed.
2007-11-27 04:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes eather winding u up or she loves you just ask her ouut for a date or sumin
2007-11-27 04:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by xXxLisaxXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋