my boyfriend is really sweet but we've been going out for 1and 2/3 of a year and we've only kissed twice and he's never hugged me=(
What should i do?????
2007-11-27 04:19:42 · 15 answers · asked by xXxLisaxXx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's a virgin and just doesnt know how to go further.Its up to you to guide him and give him a gentle push.
If this doesnt do it maybe youv'e got stuck in the "friend zone." In wich case you need to move on...
2007-11-27 04:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jezmanrulz-PWC-WRW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend was hurt in the past and has trouble getting close to another girl. He might feel like if you hugs or kisses you too much then he will be vulnerable to being hurt again. Next time the two of you are together, give him a hug and a kiss. If he pulls away you can ask him about it. Be sensitive, but don't let him get out of answering you. That is a long time to be dating and rarely kiss and never hug....
2007-11-27 12:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by myluv115 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for a hug in a teasing manner. (like come here and give me a hug you cute guy). If you want more effection tell him comminucate your needs to make your relationship work for the both of you. Best of wishes.
2007-11-27 12:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Hugs from Sugar bug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's strange, how old are you and him? I think you should talk to him and see whats going on. Sounds like you and him are just like friends and not b/f g/f Tell him you want more or move on.
2007-11-27 12:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by gemini<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should go and find u sum one who will hug and kiss u
2007-11-27 12:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. Are you guys together a lot? I mean maybe he wants to take it slow...thats pretty s...l...o...w But I mean maybe he just wants more of a friend....I would really confront him about it.
2007-11-27 12:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tough question. you would think it would
progress past that point. you don,t want to look cheap
or sleazy, but in a tasteful fashion tell him how you feel
2007-11-27 12:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't like to do that kind of stuff and we just have to deal with it if you really like him.
2007-11-27 12:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Christina N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh my gosh. wow. well why dont you hug him? why not ask him why he doesnt show you more physical affection? thats not normal, sorry to say.
2007-11-27 12:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by li 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and hug him
2007-11-27 12:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by N TigerPaw 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋