Do you think i will ever find the right guy ?

Answer 1

Hello.

Please excuse me for what i am going to say.

The right guy dosent exist.

It pains me to say that.
Truly it does.
For if that is true there is not "right girl "for me.

And that sucks....lol

But guess what?

There is a compatible guy out there with similar interests as you, who will chose you first and is considerate to your needs. Who will open doors for you, and show you chivalry and prove to you it isnt dead. He will want to do these things not to impress, but because it is who he is. It is what he knows how to do, and the way he would prefer to treat the woman he fancies. ;)
What i mean to say is there isnt just one guy out there who was labled as the one for you at birth, and untill you can find him you will never be happy.
Get that out of your mind.
Its not realistic.
People who fall in love, and say i found my match, are 100% correct.
Its a match.
Not a soule mate.
Not "The ONE".
Simply a person in this world who had enough compatability with another person, that allowed those two people to overcome obsticles, see past faults and indifferences, and ultimately fall in love with eachother. Its a full time job, and if you think for one minuet that there is one person out there that if you find them, life will be a vacation from reality, please, please find out if he has a sister....lol
Seriously though.
There is compatability, not singularity when chosing a mate, or that "right" guy.
A bit of advice.
Stop looking. Stop hounding for a guy. The right one will find you when you least expect it. Live you life for you, and not to find a guy who will define you.
I gurantee if you focus on living your life to the fullest, and make plans to go places, and do stuff that includes friends, family, business, and pleasure, you will beging to swing through different circles of people, thus broadening your spectrum of introductions, and increasing you chances of meeting guys of different personalities, and characterisitcs.
Think about it.

Good Luck

R

Answer 2

I'm a little uncomfortable with the concept: "right guy." People change, so a "right guy" today might not seem so tomorrow. Relationships require work. Plan for a lot of give and take, and I'd add it is better to plan to give more than you take. So, if you are waiting for Mr. Right to come along and sweep you off your feet so that you will live happily ever after, you better have a lot of spare time. Good Luck.

Answer 3

*shakes Magic 8 ball*

Hmm. Sorry. It says "Outlook not good."

Answer 4

yes.. but for the meantime, concentrate on being the right woman for your future "right man".. ;-)


good luck! ;-)

Answer 5

of course you will. be patient for your right guy:)