because his father is rude. I love him so much. We do not live together..He comes to my place or I will go to his place...and we only see each other on Saturday's because of our work schedule. Well there's the guy at my job that have been hanging out with...We go to happy hours together and we went to lunch last week. We text each other like 200 times a day and sometime meetup somewhere just to talk...well the talking has turned into kissing :(...and I like this guy too but he is 39 and I am 25..he has 2 children who has custody of and he has been married twice...and he is dating 2 other women that work here ( one still works here the other one doesn't) and he has been married twice. I have never been married and I do not have any children. He says he wants to be with me but I thought I was in love my boyfriend. My boyfriend is the BEST boyfriend in the world...Why am I doing what I am doing??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! What should I do...and why do I hangout with this other guy.....
2007-11-27 03:07:42 · 4 answers · asked by WTF Is going on.... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, stop hanging out with this 39 year old guy! He sounds like a pig! Married twice and dating 3 girls! Run away from this guy as fast as you can and don't look back. As for your boyfriend....after 5 years and you haven't meet his parents...something is wrong with that. Tell him you don't care if his father is rude...that you just want to meet them...even if it's just once. If he still refuses...then there might be more to it then his father is just rude. Talk to your bf and tell him it's ok and that you won't judge him. If you love him and want to be with him that's what you need to do.
2007-11-27 03:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run from the guy at work, he's a player.
As to why you are doing what you are doing, your boyfriend has you on permanent back burner and you are turning to someone who is giving you the attention you want and this guy at work is probably lying about wanting to be with only you so you'll continue see him in the hopes he'll drop the other women to be with you.
Think about what it is you want from your boyfriend and where you want your relationship to go with him. Then have a very open and honest talk with him about it to make sure the two of you are on the same page. If after the talk you decide that what you want and what he wants are not the same thing, then break up with him so you can move on and be free to see someone else.
2007-11-27 03:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how it feels to have a rude father.
Married twise, dating with two other women, having already sex when you were born (14 yrs old), 2 childrien in a custody and already married twise. Sounds crazy!
Be with the one you love.
2007-11-27 04:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Essien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be with ur boyfriend only why hang with other guy hang with ur boyfriend give time that much to ur boyfriend and if u like that man also just enjoy with him some time means u will much better then u will think forther
2007-11-27 03:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by bluffmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋