2007-11-27 01:28:19 · 28 answers · asked by patrick r 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am so sorry. :(
There are no comforting words I can say that can take your pain away. Just pray...
Things happen for a reason. Death is part of life. To some it comes at 90 and some don't even get to see even the world and die in the womb.
Please pray to God.
2007-11-27 01:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by meera m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, I'm sorry for your loss. Second, as an atheist, I would recommend not blaming god, but look for the actual causes of your son's death. Rather than being angry at your idea of 'god', I recommend using that energy for something positive/with meaning. Look at the cases where parents have turned the death of a child into something positive, focusing the energy towards preventing the deaths of other children from the same cause. Again, I'm sorry for your loss, but try to turn this into something with meaning and not waste the energy in anger.
2007-11-27 09:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by ibushido 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The great thing is that your son has returned to the place they call Paradise and he will have a chance to grow and learn in the millennium. God is just and fair he does not deal with death on this earth for the most part, he leaves it to chance and nature. He will however right any wrongs be it in this life or the next he will give every one, including babies that have died before their time the chance to grow and learn and to feel the love of their parents. They may have to wait for Christs return and their mother and father may be resurrected individuals but none the less God is fair and just he will see to it your baby has all the opportunity's of any one else who has ever lived on this earth. But for now you can trust in the fact he has taken your child into his arms and care.
2007-11-27 09:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by saintrose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for you loss. I don't completely know how you feel but I do have an idea. My first daughter was in the hospital for 2 months after she was born. In an incubator, ventilator, feeding tubes. It was a scary thing. I thought she was going to die. I am so sorry for you loss. I can only imagine the pain you are in right now.
2007-11-27 09:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mable VT is thinking, kinda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I believe in God. I'm a Christian for years. i have also a brother who died just after 12 days and apparently don't know the reason why. there are so many things that we don't understand in life. but i believe that everything happens for a reason. i believe that he has the control of our lives. you may not know the reason yet but eventually God would reveal it to you.
He owns everything and definitely he has the right to take your son from you. but one thing is for sure He is the God who the author of life and he is the commander of our lives. he will not take your son if you cannot bear the pain. Just continue to trust in Him, he has other plans for you.
2007-11-27 09:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by bigdom 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am happy you had 11 days with your beautiful, innocent child, and I am so very sad his life ended so quickly. Life is so precious and fragile, and it passes quickly no matter how many days or years we are alive. It is a mystery we are born, and it is unknown how long we will be alive.
May you find comfort and peace among those who are alive now and love you dearly, and may you feel deeper joy knowing they are with you now. Live your life from moment to moment, and please know the pain and grief you feel will lessen over time.
My heart and sympathy go out to you during this sad time in your life.
2007-11-27 09:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the humblest of answers: Yes.
Your child was your child, but God controls everything, and knows all things. God knows what this child would have gone through, and decided that it was worth taking him home early. We don't know the pain you are going through, but I can tell you that no matter what, God has your good in mind. The Bible says so. If you don't believe that, then you probably won't care what I have to say. I don't understand most things that God does, but in the end...I never reget trusting what He did. I am always happy that I followed Him, even during the saddest of times.
My heart goes out to you and your family, and I'm praying for you.
2007-11-27 09:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by tcjstn 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry for your loss, but I know one thing. Your son is in a lot better place than you are. God takes the perfect sons early. Prepare yourself to be with him because he is in heaven with God.
2007-11-27 09:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OH Patrick. I am so sorry. Nothing anyone can say at this time will make you feel any better. Just know, please, that this is not God's doing. He doesn't "take" anyone or "need another angel" as is sometimes said. Illness and so forth are a fact of our life right now. Again, my heart goes out to you and your family at this time of grief.
2007-11-27 09:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Q&A Queen 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for your loss. God weeps with you at the loss of your son. He creates each of us to be perfect, but once we enter this world, we are each effected by it. It is the world that took your son, not God. You will be in my prayers.
2007-11-27 09:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋