Theres This 17 Year Old Boy Who I Get Along With Quite Well, But I Was Shocked When I Found Out He Wanted To Be More Than Friends, But I Just Took It And Didnt Think Anything Of It. But Now I Think I Like Him To, He Asked Me If I Wanted To Lose My Virginity To Him But I Didnt Think It Was Thie Right Time To Because At That Stage I Was Only 12 And He Was 16, But He Asked Me Again And I Said Yes But I Totally Regret My Decision And Dont Know How 2 Tell Him, Dont Think Of Him As A Perv Because Hes A Really Nice Guy But Im Just Not Ready For That Right Now...
2007-11-26 22:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun, u r waaaay too young. i know ur probably sick and tired of hearing this, but u gotta admit that even u don't feel comfortable with all this. tell him what u told us, and if he really is a nice guy, then he should be able to respect your decision, and accept the fact that he will have to wait a few more years if he's really into u. ur such a good girl for reassessing ur relationship with him. a lot of 13 year olds would be stupid and rush into things at such a fragile and young age. best of luck, sweetums!
2007-11-26 23:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a NICE GUY, he just seems it to you. He is giving you attention and making you feel special, but deep down he is serving his own interests, he wants to get laid and you seem a little easy for him. He either can't find a girl his own age or he is a little kinky verging on paedophilia, cause at the end of the day, you might be old enough to be sexually active but your still just a girl.
You don't want to waste your first sexual experience with just a NICE Boy who is far too old for you. It should be with someone who is very special to you because you will always remember it, even when your as old as am. lol
2007-11-26 22:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Claud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can like you and you can like him, but as far as giving up your virginity to some one you just "like" and you're just turning into a young woman... well, I don't think you should be moving so fast. Especially, if all your instincts are telling you that you are not ready yet. Listen to yourself. Don't trade in something that should be cherished and mean something for the sake of "a really nice guy" that you "like".
2007-11-26 22:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by CaramelKitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your virginity to him now. Be friends with him and nothing more. Remember, you are still a minor and he could end up in jail if he had sex with you.
When both of you are adults, if you still love each other, you can get married and give your virginity to him on the wedding night. It will be very special for both of you, trust me.
2007-11-26 22:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats exactly what you should tell him...tell him you are not ready.
i mean your only 13 thats way to young to be starting to having sex and will hurt you a lot since your so young.
but yes he is 17 and since he has asked you for sex already that just means hes gonna be using you for it.
and i dont think any woman or girl deserves that.
so just say to him your not ready for it.
he is gonna be using you for it and trust me he may be a nice guy but not all guys that seem nice do nice things to people.
2007-11-26 22:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by skye_dez_smiles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!
i'm 14 and an 18 yr old likes me too...
nyway...i think u shud keep away from him...i dont think he likes u as a whole person...
and, gosh ur jst 13 dont loose ur virginity!!!!
2007-11-26 22:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your education or else you will become a single parent soon. And he will use your body and dump you after than and move on to the next victim.
2007-11-26 22:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by live and let live 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not a nice guy. he is just wanting sex with you and before you could have your clothes back on he'd be off on his next conquest. thats why older guys aim for young girls because they are looking for something special and still quite niave... dont go near this guy again.
2007-11-26 22:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by wolvesoftime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say that you ain't ready yet and say that he have to wait. If he gets all angery and piss off just dump him. If he just nods and walks alway he may get another girl so it is attually your life not ours. If he agrees then you just have to wait.
2007-11-26 22:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad..I'll bet he's got a 12 gauge answer to this little problem
2007-11-26 22:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋