I dont know how to explain it but its like everything i do isnt right and I'm afraid of what people might think of me. Even my mom says im to hard on myself, I feel like i should agree with everything some one says even if i dont think what they said is right. do you know what I mean? Why am I like this?
2007-11-26 17:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
sounds like you have low self esteem. You think other people are smarter than you, and you probably are afraid of being wrong, or easily embarrassed. Learn to accept that nobody is perfect. it's ok to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them. Everyone also has a right to their own opinion, so don't be passive, and scared to voice your opinions. You're here on this website expressing your thoughts to who knows how many strangers, so why not take that same approach among the people who know and see you on a regular basis?
everyone has to be a leader at some point, you can't always be a follower. You deserve to be heard, so share your thoughts, opinions, and voice with people. if someone doesn't like, or agree with what you have to say it's ok. It doesn't make them right and you wrong, or make your opinion less valuable than theirs. Express yourself and get your point across.
2007-11-26 18:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I used to be kind of like that. I used to care about what others say and agree with what others would say and not go with my own instincts. It's not easy I know, you get caught up in all this, but it's important to let others know how you feel or how things should go because you shouldn't always be a follower, be a leader(: Don't let others walk all over you. And even if what you do isn't right, it doesn't matter because you've tried. Take it as a lesson and learn from it. Life isn't all about others. Think about yourself for once and what you want. Sometimes it's better to walk away from the crowd and make you're own decisions :D
2007-11-26 18:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by iii. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to accept and face the happenings honestly and boldly,calmly without pre-occupied conception of mind-- be judicious and free fron prejudices.
2007-11-26 18:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sisir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that. Everything i do, even if it nice, turns out to go against me. :(
I guess you're like that cause you choose to be like that. you just gotta build confedence in yourself and find a way to ignore other people's opinions.
2007-11-26 18:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know what you mean
i was like this too
sometimes i am but not so much as before
now i realise i needed to talk about how i felt with my family and share my feelings. let them love and support you. pray.
2007-11-26 18:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just smart. it should level out as you mature and have conquered many of your fears and desires.
you are better off then the apathetic ones that are doomed to inept failure .
2007-11-26 18:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself what would I (yourself) do in a situation like this. one day at a time.
2007-11-26 18:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by spanishchic2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, nothing is perfect. Be easy and you will be happier.
2007-11-26 18:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-26 19:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋