The girl I like hates me because I like her, all the guys ignore me, the worst of it all I am the nicest kid in the school and people still hate me. Is it because I might be to quiet in class.
2007-11-26 17:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by gabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're obviously not the NICEST kid in school. Cuz the nicest kid in my school is loved by everyone. Thay guy is sooooo funny. You should meet him. But seriously, I just called my buddy who goes to a different school and asked about the nicest kid in HIS school and what everyone thinks of him. He said everyone LOVES him, too. So.... maybe you're wrong. I'm not saying definitely, but yeah, probably wrong about that.
2007-11-26 17:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people hate people for no reason other than jealousy. They wish they were like you, IF you are truly a nice guy, they probably put up a front and u are yourself. Keep being yourself and one day, at the right time, the right kind of person will notice and admire who you are, after all, who needs fake friends???
and it is good to be quiet and learn, that way you get the good education and the great job and great wife, they get a little attention and are wishing they were more like you when they get older and they realize they screwed up trying to be popular. How many adults do you know who are still friends, true friends with school buddies?? not too many and most of them are back stabbers anyway. Just do good and soon enough you will have what you need. no worries...
2007-11-27 01:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself out there. If you don't have the friendship you can't lose it. Start up conversations with people about something...especially if they're sitting alone or silent. Try not to jump into already existing conversations because often teens see that as invasive. Instead, just make aside comments to people. Eventually they might warm to you. It takes some effort, but usually if you put effort forward then it'll help out. Try not to crack jokes either, because if they fail on first impression sometimes people will use that against you.
2007-11-27 01:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Links 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u first of all? many people might want to talk to you but because u are quiet they dont know if they should approach you. kind of like ur quiet because u want to be left alone trying approaching potential friends if they dont like it then go to somebody else out of all the kids in ur class someone is bound to accept you
2007-11-27 01:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by mexicandimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it will soon be over..... you wait until you're out of high school and rebellious all the girls will love you ecspecially the one you adore most. But in the end, its your self esteem that will feel great... not so much that girl sitting next to you.... enjoy being a kid, don't let this get to you.... you got your whole life ahead of ya!
2007-11-27 01:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by O' wai kou inoa? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always see you the way you see yourself. Believe in yourself. Participate in class and social activities, think and see yourself as a lovable person, and show true love to them. The best way to receive love is to give love. Hei, Jesus loves you so much so don't think everybody hates you.
2007-11-27 01:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Alex A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh your quite? thats probably why. you never know but i dont usually talk to quite people. because there kind of scary look at it this way thoes loud outgoing people who talk all the time...you know what there thinking but the quite ones...who knows? what if there planning on killing everyone? no one would know. and the quite people are usually creepy. or they dont get the opinion in and get stepped all over. speak up for your self. have an opinion! good luck. sorry if i hurts your feelings.
2007-11-27 01:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by shiney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be independent, act like you coulod not care less what
they think about you.
if that fails, get a group of friends who are nice who
will appreciate you for your fine qualities. good luck.
2007-11-27 01:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be nice becuase they think your soft so just show that you dont need them and then try to talk to them again
2007-11-27 01:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the problem is that you're ugly or that maybe you're really a jerk...
Or maybe they are all jerks...
Do you know where Columbine Colorado is?
2007-11-27 01:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Unsure of my orientation 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋