2007-11-26 17:27:04 · 13 answers · asked by yue_22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out what is important to you and spend time doing it. Spend time with friends, family, or just doing things that make you happy. Realize that the person who made you feel this way is not worth it and that you are better off without them. Once you are happy just being yourself, then you can start to date again.
2007-11-26 17:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Joie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to heal naturally. For some it only lasts a week or two, for others it could be years, but it will heal ultimately, naturally. What you can do though, is divert your attention to other things, preferably productive things, to take your mind off the heartache. The more you cry and feel bad about it, the worst it will get. Just have a positive attitude (God made it happen for a reason!) and do other things to keep your mind (and heart) busy.
Personally, I dated other guys and kept my doors open. It was the best option I took rather than keeping myself from dating. It made me know more kinds of men out there. I was just strict to myself and always stayed in my boundary (no sleeping around, just enjoy the company). Thankfully, after that heartache, I was lucky (I would say smart too) enough to give my heart to my soulmate who I am married to now and is having a blast of life together!
Good luck on yours!!!
2007-11-27 01:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by ivory_windy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's tough, but time works best. I was with a girl for five years, and we split up 3 years ago. It took me a good year to get over her, and I still feel a little heartache when see things that remind me of her.
But that's life, and part of what defines you. Make a conscious effort not to dwell on your pain, and let time take care of things.
Good luck.
2007-11-27 01:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jay K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, even in all its color and splendor can still cast a storm in our lives and sometimes cause great emotional destruction. Let us always remember that there is no love without pain. There is no reward without sacrifice. Sometimes love just naturally fades away and this happens to people who are simply not meant for each other. People we treasure are taken away from us for a reason . Sometimes we have to stop asking why and just accept our fate. If there is certainty in that end, then we should stop being bitter and just be thankful that for once, we have loved and shared our life. It may storm for days to nights on end but it will not storm forever. Remember, our lives may seem in endless chaos but there will always be a way to surpass it. Pain may linger longer than we wish but God will always help us find a way to endure it.
2007-11-27 01:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Crissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking around for another heartache....
2007-11-27 01:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sarath A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun with friends, think about that the person doesn't deserve to waste your energy, curb out self-esteem. Time will heal you but you should help yourself to get heal. I'm glad I'm over with it!!!
2007-11-27 07:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not like a wound that you need to cure. you just let your heart feel it. even though its hard you have to experience it for you to be strong. heartaches will just fade away in God's time and in you own time....
2007-11-27 22:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by taton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total acceptance...then let the time heals the wound.
2007-11-27 02:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Soop3rNLuVkJB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all, i mean that.
also take some time off before entering another]
relationship.
2007-11-27 01:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding something that really makes you laugh is an option.
Try to find something that takes ur mind off him/her..
2007-11-27 01:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by john w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋