Can you spend time with them and getting to know them for a few years before deciding?
2007-11-26 15:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
teran_realtor, that's a stereotype of how highschool dating goes about. Most of us do find companionship and build intimacy during dating or courting periods.
2007-11-26 15:36:32 · update #1
By dating I don't mean with both your parents on the occasional visit.
I'm dumbfounded now. These sites say dating is not allowed.
http://islam.about.com/blcourtship.htm
http://www.readingislam.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1123996015630&pagename=IslamOnline-English-AAbout_Islam/AskAboutIslamE/AskAboutIslamE
http://www.pakistancricketzone.com/showthread.php?t=8962
2007-11-26 15:55:52 · update #2
by having just one little thing read between the 2 they r islamicly married now this doesn't need a ceremony or anything.this way u can be with somebody and see if u'd like to marry i mean have a formal wedding and start to live with each other as husband and wife.there r kinds of Islamic marriages that have a limit that means that u can kiss hug or have sex with some body for a period and then u r not allowed to do these things after this period ends without having to get divorced
2007-11-26 15:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by A1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also have a Muslim pal who's deeply non secular. in accordance to him, they are not assume to date. maximum get an arranged marriage, which i think of could suck undesirable. An arranged marriage could be no relaxing. i do no longer consider their relationship policies. an incredible variety of Muslims do date, so as that they might marry their actual love.
2016-09-30 05:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a foolish custom - especially since it is supposed to be a way to get to know someone better. The guy shaves, cuts his hair, washes the car, holds the door for the girl.... and she lies about who she is just as much....."I'll just have a salad."
Spend time with groups of people, actually doing things that interest you. Of the members of the opposite sex who are seeking Christ at the same "pace" as you, find a spouse. That's how you avoid being unequally yoked, which eventually results in divorce.
2007-11-26 15:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by teran_realtor 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, we're allowed to date as long as the date does not break the rule of Islam such as sex, kissing, touching or wearing improper clothes.
Yes, we can spend time with them to know them before deciding.
2007-11-26 15:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by kool92 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
arent there marriges pre-arranged? if you do not want to marry the person I doubt you can say no; or that this is based on 'compatibility'
2007-11-26 15:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋