Ok here i go I have a beutiful son me and ex still buds but not lovers are interest is are kid so for the last year she took very hard class for nursing!!!! passed at top of her class as I haved helped her both emotional and finantuly but never taken away from my current relationship as I am doing all this with in my needs so here it it I am taking my girlfreind on 8 day cruise and she pissed because bought the ex a day at the spa! I love my girl more than anything but is this jelousy or my bad ?straight and honest please as I have allways been faithful to girlfreind and her 3 kids
2007-11-26 15:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by bmill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no right or wrong here, but there are some things you should probably consider.
It's nice that you and your ex are still buddies and that you are willing to help her financially and buy her gifts. However, you're in a relationship with another woman and she objects that you're still being very nice to your ex.
I can understand your girlfriend's feeling because what you do is not common. Most people usually don't have good relationships with their exes. Those who do, usually are not overly nice to their exes. So, what you do is very rare. Not a single person I know personally do even remotely close to what you do to your ex.
I'm not saying that it's wrong for you to do this, but I think you need to consider which one is more important for you right now. Being very nice to your ex or making your current girlfriend stop worrying about your relationship with your ex? If I were you, I would at least stop giving the extra attention to my ex.
2007-11-26 15:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is overreacting and being jealous!! It was very nice of you to buy your ex a day at the spa to show her you appreciate all of her hard work. You need to explain to your current gf that you are trying to be a good guy and a good father and trying to be supportive and helpful. You want a good life for those kids and for your ex and your current gf needs to accept this. You sound like a really good guy!
2007-11-26 23:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were veeeerrrryyyyy wrong to do this to me. If you gonna ask the question, get the story straight! You forgot to mention that you still call her "Honey", oh and that we have been together for 7 months, and I still have not met her because you refuse to let me because she "hates me" (whats up with that)? And when she called & I answered the phone, it made her feel uncomfortable so you told her "it wont happen again"!! When I said that wasn't right and maybe you should mention the fact that I AM YOUR LADY< and I might be answering the phone sometimes, she totally flipped out on you, Oh and remember you got mad at me for that. Or what about just last week when I caught you at A MOTEL with her (oh, but you were just watching your kid right) Or what about the time you called me from her house to tell me you were just chillen. And then did'nt come home for two nights. can I go on?
2007-11-26 23:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by mamacita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur gf is just jealous that ur on such good terms with ur ex. Its nice that u rewarded ur ex for all her hard work like that. Besides ur current gf is getting a cruise so u may have to have a little word about her overeacting to such a silly thing.
2007-11-26 23:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you spending money on the ex you know thats bad stop before gf leave for good
2007-11-26 23:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant quite understand what you are asking, have someone help you write the question out.
2007-11-26 23:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you were she feels hurt that you wld buy your ex anything and does not understand u r still friends.
2007-11-26 23:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha jealousy dont worry this is normal = )
2007-11-26 23:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋