He will get mad at me for the most pointless things.. like if i say a joking comment..and when i Try and talk to him about it saying i was only kidding he is a total *** to ME! and Every little thing i do now pisses him.. off it seems like i am always making a mis take and he is never happy ...with me.
But then other times he is madly in love with me!
Can you say bi polar much?
I dont know what to do or think about him anymore?!?!?
any help?
2007-11-26 15:04:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then i would tell him that you need some time apart to think things over, as you can;t live like this
2007-11-26 15:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be making any babies with him if I were you.
Sounds like he loves you, BUT in a selfish way.As long as you are acting and doing the way he likes everything is fine, but when you are yourself and not like he wants you to be, then he gets upset.
You also have to ask yourself,if he will treat you like this now over little things ,how much more if you run into a bad problem?
You might want to take a break from him until he matures some.
2007-11-26 15:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably say give him a few more days to see what is going on. If he keeps acting up about it, it could get worse. Turning into verbal abuse r physical abuse, and i dont think anybody wants that! In my own opinion, if he does get worse I would break up with him and tell him you only want to be friends because, at least then you didnt say anything else you guys could still be friends =]
I hope i helped and all goes well!
2007-11-26 15:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by liviy94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, get out. Seriously. My Ex-husband was like that. I stayed because when he was nice and lovey it was great, but when he would go off it was bad. Took me a while to learn that it is verbal abuse. It can escalate. Talk to him about getting counseling or anger management classes. If he blows you off do the same. Some things you just can't change :(
2007-11-26 15:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by cfrattle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to know the honest and prob the best answer.....break up with him y would u want to hav a bf that dosent like u @ times and tehn other times he is in love that dude has bug issues BIG ones so yeah best hing is too break up there r many other guys who will LOVE u like24 7 not just 2 7 but every guy will get mad @ his gf weather she did somtin to annoy him or did somtin wat ever but tahts normal but wat ur guy is no he should like u 24 7 not just when hes in a good mood
2007-11-26 15:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Party animal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you do...you need to find out from him if its not necessarily what you say or if its how you say it. It could also be when you say it. Such as saying certain things around his friends your friends or adults...Only he can answer your question...Another thing to consider is that maybe he isnt telling you something...(im not saying hes cheating on you) but maybe he is upset about something. Find out if he is different around his friends. Only he can tell you for sure though...
P.S. Dont listen to all the people saying he is an idiot or w/e...for all they know maybe he is mad at you for something you did...or like i said before maybe he is having outside issues...no relationship is perfect...there will always be kinks to work out
2007-11-26 15:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by hockeyace39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flags, lady, cannot you see them? what are you waiting for to dump this jerk: that he beats the hell out of you one of these days ? can you imagine living with this guy 20 years taking all his crap: anger over little things, belittling you, treating you like s--t ?. Why some women want to change jerks like that man instead of getting rid of them ?. There is no excuse to be with a man like that one , boyfriend or husband, self respect for ourselves is VERY important and in your case, it is missing.
What to do about him?; dump him, he's not worthy one more question. He's not bipolar, he's simply a jerk.
2007-11-26 15:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him like I know you said he is total *** to you but tell him that you can't take it anymore that he treats you like crap and if he's not gonna change then maybe all you and him can be is friends... tell him you really love him but you can't seem to have fun with him anymore without him getting mad well GOOD LUCK!!
2007-11-26 15:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try distance? If he is constantly getting upset with you, then why be with him? Leave him and tell him that if you dont make him happy then he is free to go find happiness elsewhere. Or ask him to be serious with you and tell you what is going on that he keeps on getting mad at you.
2007-11-26 15:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by xoangeleyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing to do is to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling about things. Maybe he doesn't realize that he gets upset over little things and that it bothers you so much. Telling him can only help him realize.
2007-11-26 15:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by laulaukins 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋