i need all the help i can get so please answer/ preferably girl?

Question

i really like my boyfreind alot and he like me too but soetimes whene were making out like at the movies or in my room he tries too tak t farthr and hwen i say please stop im not shure about this hes stops and sys ok im sorry i just got into it and then we continue making out and veythings ok but im still not shure what to do i12 and dont say im to yung i really like him and weve been going out for a yearand my mom has me on birth control justin case bit im still not shurei please help me

Answer 1

Well, first I'm going to give you a bit of advice you may not like. Take physical affection back a step. Get to know each other better without using your bodies. Can you have fun without making out? I'm 18 and I'm still saving my first kiss

However, you seem to feel like you're not ready. If that's the case, then don't give into anything too soon. If you don't want to do anything like that, then don't get yourself in situations thatwould could get like that (in the house alone, closed and locked door, anywhere someone can't walk in on you, etc)

And yet, you may actually want to take the next step. While I do not advise it, it's your body. Remember, no birth control is 100%, you could be pregnant at a VERY young age. Are you sure you're ready? You have your whole like to do this, enjoy being a teen! Also, STDs and HPV and such are NOT prevented by birth control. And most importantly, you can NEVER get your virginity back, make sure you let the right person take it.

You're young, I'm not sure if you can know what love is, and yes, you REALLY LIKE him, but do you want to have sex w/ someone you don't love?

Answer 2

He's a boy. Boys this age have raging hormones. Of course, when you're kissing he wants to go further. Maybe you two should head out to an arcade, go see a movie, or grab a pizza. Those are things I did with my boyfriends when I was 12. I can't really read all of your question, as I don't know where the sentences begin and when they end. You misspelled words and bunched others together. If I were you, I'd put off boys for awhile and pay attention in English class.

Answer 3

Okay, a lot of things.

1-Talk to him about it! Tell him you're not ready and that you love him more then anything but you're not ready for that stage in your life and that neither is he and you don't want to be making a big mistake. And if he loves you as much as he says he'll wait. See if the relationship LASTS long before you take it that far.

2-I can't believe your mom. The "age of consent" is 16 in most US states. You're 12! I'm almost 13 but 12 too. That's wayy to young. No one can force you to take it. Are you willingly taking it? If so well stop because obviously you're not having sex. And if you're mom is forcing you tell her that you want your virginity and that she needs to trust you, that you're her daughter and that you're saving for a later time in life for the right guy. Also I'm not sure if it's legal to force someone to take that.

3- I would definatley not have sex at this age. Make sure that you think things trough and do what your heart tells you.


I know I'm not a girl but I hope I helped!

Answer 4

my dear, 12 is way too young...and I think you know it but don't want to admit it. But i'm glad to know you stops him and he respects you. If you need to ask people on here if you should take it further or not then it is mostly likely that you are not ready for it. Theres lots of time and if he really is the one for you and will to stick around then maybe wait a few more years! and theres laws about age of consent and ,again, you're 12. You havent even reach teens yet so take your time because the worse thing is regretting doing something your not ready for.

Answer 5

Just talk to him about it. Make sure he understands your limits. If he doesn't thoroughly understand, then he will never know. Its good that your mom had you on birth control just in lol you never know with ppl these days. But it is obvious that you really like this kid, so i would just keep it cool for now, but if he continues to push your boundaries, you are going to need to be a lil B****y about it. Lol, sounds weird, but you can't let people take advantage of u. If he absolutely goes too far, get rid of him!
Take care, and b careful!

Answer 6

If you're 12 and your mom has you on birth control you live in the south. Learn to lighten up, there's other activities other then sex. None of them you should be experimenting with. You're to young and definately should just relax and learn to enjoy kissing. You've been doing the right move, if he tries to go further then tell him you're not ready point blank.

He will understand.

Answer 7

ur kidding me? your mother has you on birth control because youve had your little bf since you were 10? i am not trying to nag u but for real you are too young! birth control or not ask yourself if you are ready to take care of a baby. thing about it you and your kid can go out when shes 16 youll be like 30! do you have a dad at home?

Answer 8

It sounds like you're overwhelmed by your feelings and by having a boyfriend. I think you're too young to have to deal with sexual issues too. You should be having fun with your girlfriends, hanging out, laughing, gossiping, shopping and going to the movies. It sounds like somewhere inside this is what you really want anyway. I don't think you're ready for sex. Break up with your boyfriend and start being a regular girl.

Answer 9

Okay im sorry but you are young for that. How old is your boyfriend? You definatley dont want to go any further than that.having sex (if thats what further means) before your married is on of the worst mistakes you could ever make. tell him to stop and if he doesnt talk to you mom.

good luck sweetheart!

<3 Jillian

Answer 10

whoaaaa, your 12 and your mom as you on birth control??? what made her even decide to put you on that.
holy sh*t.
don't go any further your WAY TO YOUNG
no joke.
and if you guys have been "going out for a year"
you still shouldn't.
that would mean that either one of you or both of you were 11 at the time.
lay off and wait a couple years.
damn.