Well I have this friend, and he has a girlfriend, he wants me and wants to be with me permanently or so he says! Well we did the mattress mumbo today and now I don't know what to expect next! Do I continue my friendship with him and lay low? Or do I get up in his face and voice my concerns?
2007-11-26 14:34:45 · 7 answers · asked by Nicole J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read 10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives.
Sex comes in 2 flavors, recreational and relational.
IF your looking for a permanent relationship, as in husband/family/kids. Do not have sex where the relationship/commitment is ambiguous.
IF you jump in the sack without any sense of commitment, you are having recreational sex, so do not pretend it's anything else.
It's really pretty simple. You ether have sex without a commitment OR insist on a commitment before you have sex.
Don't get in your friends face. Just be a grown woman. It's silly to have non commital sex and then wonder where your commitment is.
2007-11-26 15:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on his girlfriend with you so that puts you in the middle of one big mess. You'll know soon enough what to expect. He'll either step up or step out, and probably the latter since he's gotten what he wanted from you. There is no way you two can ever go back to being just friends either. If he decides to stay with you, don't be surprised if he does the "mattress mumbo" with some other girl someday the way he did with you today.
2007-11-26 22:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mattress mumbo??? lol I like that. I think you only have two options, continue the friendship, or don't continue the friendship. He has a girlfriend, unless you want to replace her.
2007-11-26 22:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should have voiced your concerns before you did "the do", but since you already did than yes you should. He is having a field day with both of you, if he really wanted to be with you he would have already broken up with his girlfriend before he slept with you. Put yourself in his girlfriends place how would you feel if someone did what you are doing to her ,to you? Just be care full because you never know if later on he could do the same thing he's doing to his girlfriend right now to you. Good luck with everything.
2007-11-26 22:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by solay26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mattress Mambo! That's a good one... LOL! I think you should voice your opinion. If you want more than just a friendship, say so, especially since you had sex now. Good luck to you.
2007-11-26 22:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he cheated on her with you, and you have every right to voice your concerns, especially now. if he's still with her, and doing that with you, he needs to know that you want him to leave her, or else it's over between the two of you. so, get up in his face!
2007-11-26 22:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mary Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mattress mambo, mattress mamboo, umm, i have heard about it, is in the eastern north!!??
2007-11-26 23:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋