Cheater?? Or not?I like this guy and i think he likes me but he has a GF!!!?

Question

OKay so I like this guy and we talk a lot online and hes always complememting me about how i look and my personality and he always says im beautiful and pretty. and he says i have a good sense of humor and a great personality and i think the same about him. But the fact is.. I know he has a gf, it says it on myspace. And when we talk on aim he sometimes puts up an away message and it will say in there somewhere " I love you babe <3" and its for his gf.. so why would he be talking to me? Is he cheating? Is this flirting? is it wrong to talk me me the way he does when he has a gf??? Correct me if im wrong but i think he likes me and im afraid. This kid is about the sweetest thing to so i wouldnt expect this. and what if he is tryin to cheat. or what if he breaks up with his gf so that he can go out with me? and then while we are going out i cnt trust him because he might be doing the same thing ad he did with me... with others. but hes too sweet.. SOME advice please!

Answer 1

If sweet means that much to you in a person, you don't know how to look deep enough. Hitlers friends said he was sweet, what did hitler do? Thats right, its a mute f'in point. What you need to look at is his actions, and yours too. For one, you havn't question him about weather he has a gf, so your "Babying" him so you don't loss his attentions. So lets be honest, your flauter and deep down you most not really care he has a gf, right? If it met anything to you, you would of said something, or left the man alone, so your sort of feeling like the queen, maybe stealing some girls man huh? Well good for you! Time to learn a valuable lesson about how people that cheat don't know how to love, keep talking to him, shoot ask him on a date. But I bet you, weeks, months, maybe even years down the line, you'll remember how you meet him, and you'll eye-ball his computer with GREAT jealousy, but heck, its your life.....