We're talking about several things here- you, your ex, and something like a relationship between you and him. Let's do the easy part- your dream is not indicative of what he will/won't do. And since the relationship you have/had isn't able to speak for itself, we can drop that, too.
What you're telling us about your dream says lots about you. On one level, it seems you want him to be the one who puts you in a "forever love" kind of status. Is this bad? Well, if he is the kind of guy who will do that, then maybe not. But there's a lot of history behind that little prefix, "ex- " that you're not considering. Remember, a husband has lots of things you want- financial security, physical love, emotional comfort, and individual integrity. Maybe more. But I'm guessing something happened in one of those areas that made you break up.
Now that you don't have him, you might be feeling less than complete. (Just WAGging here) I know that I miss a lot of what I had before I divorced my ex wife, too. Not enough to want her back, but enough to notice and miss some qualities.
I think it's natural to want more, to miss and want what you used to have. This is your emotional side speaking up. Might be better for your unemotional, logical side to take charge of your life and tell your emotional side that he's an ex for a reason. Let's don't make a long laundry list of his faults. Think about yourself- what do you miss about him? What do you really want? (I'm having trouble with this myself) And think about the "What-ifs --" ahead. If you initiate something to bring him back into your life, what will happen? Are you sure you want that?
Good luck with dreaming. I think we all need to go somewhere from time to time, and that's what dreams are about- taking you, if for only a short time, to a place where you're perfectly happy. Enjoy the experience of dreaming with your head in the clouds, but keep your feet on the real-world ground. Be well!!
2007-11-26 14:57:25
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answered by going_for_baroque 7
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Nobody has a definite answer.
I would say it is certainly worth exploring though.
Some people believe dreams have significant meaning, and others believe they are just stories.
You have to decide for yourself.
2007-11-26 14:31:59
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answered by Bryan 2
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Well, This is because u wan him 2 come bac 2 u.. U dun wan him 2 go away.. Find out wat ur boy frien thinks bout the relationship.. Ur dream might come true..
2007-11-26 14:54:52
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answered by Anonymous
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