Okay so i started dating this guy, then i moved in with him. My parents kicked me out im only 17. He has a sister who had this baby she's 2 and a half. The baby lives with us and her mom has her own house. Mikalas mother is only 19 and is in a bit of trouble so we have watched her for about a year. And im so ATTACHED to this kidd. I love her to death She's almost like my child. She calls me mama all the time. I love her with all my heart.
So like my boyfriends grandma(Nan)dosent like my ittle mikalah to be around anybody but her.
She does her best to keep Mikalah away from the world.
So last weekend we take mikalah to my grandpas to spend time with my baby girl.
Nan decides to let tracy(my boyfriends mom )know She's moving out and taking my miki with her.
What should i do??
Get my miki back??? or should i just never speak to Nan anymore? i dont like her that much anyway.
I need my miki back...
2007-11-26 13:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by ♥[[Alyssa]]♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
WOW, that would be really hard. who is Nan to take her away from everyone maybe you should just try to keep in touch with Miki. she it going to need someone other than her grandma to talk to when she is older, But if you really love that girl and want to take care of her and be her mom maybe you should do whats best for the kidd.. GOOD LUCK
2007-11-26 14:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by jersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that this is happening...both for you and the child. But the baby isn't yours, and before you think about doing something rash and screwing up your life, you need to put that in perspective. The baby is not the grandmother's either though. She doesn't have any legal right to her. Talk to the mother. Tell her that if she can't take car of the child to at least go through the legal motion of appointing a guardian. Express your concern about the grandmother and your desire to be a part of the babies life. Unfortunately hun, you are really too young to give this baby what she needs either. It would be ideal if you could be in more of a big sister role. Maybe the mother would let you advise her on who would be an appropriate guardian....after all she has entrusted the life of her little girl to you for a year. I'm so sorry you have been put in this situation. This child needs a stable life though....try to get what's best for her.
2007-11-26 14:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is slightly confusing to read...but it sounds like this child is not your child. I don't want to take away from the attachment that you have developed with her, but at the end of the day she is not your child. YOu are young and as hard as it might be it sounds like you may have to consider cutting ties here...good luck.
2007-11-26 13:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by tanglewoodlinden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to continue to see Mikala, then why on earth would you be mean to her mother? That doesn't make sense.
Ask if you can go over and visit her.. that's the best you can do...
2007-11-26 13:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit confusing for me...
2007-11-26 13:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by SophiaIsDueAugust26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋