Would you and how would you deal knowing your going to have to put up with that parent when they have kid issues.
2007-11-26 13:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Patsy Cline 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
great answers so far but would you take back your ex if she then cameback after splitting up with the now father of their twins, which that father is also the one why she split with you ?
2007-11-26 13:50:48 · update #1
Do you think you could trust her again? I think that would be the hardest part. I've thought of this scenario with my husband who left our pretty good marriage because he got to be too good of friends with a woman in his office. The thing I always get stuck on is trust. Sure, we get along okay (on a supreficial level), I still am attracted to him, it would be the best possible thing for our son if we were back together, but could I ever trust him again? Since he hasn't wanted to come back, I don't know if I could or not.
To everyone else who hasn't been in this kind of situation, you have no basis to give advice until you've been there yourself. I always thought if he cheated on me I'd be totally done with him, but when it actually happened, and we had a child, my willingness to fix things surprised me.
2007-11-26 14:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Driver 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids do not break up relationships. Adults are the ones who have the power and the say. Adults are the older usually more mature and wiser. Adults have the final say in almost everything including ending relationships.
2007-11-26 21:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think back to why we split up to begin with. There had to have been a good reason to break up with someone, otherwise you wouldn't do it right? That would pretty much be my answer right there.
2007-11-26 21:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by jalvarez626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...it will never work. To much baggage.Go solo for a year and one day you will feel like a weight suddenly lifted off your chest. You will then wonder what you ever saw in him.
2007-11-26 22:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. You will have the same problems as before plus two brats to take care of at the same time
2007-11-26 21:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i would have to say absolutely not on that one....forgiveness only goes so far in a situation and to invite this sort of drama with others is only setting YOU in a trap
2007-11-26 22:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by miranda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids don't break up a marriage... adults do.
2007-11-26 21:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋