Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and i really do love him and am just hoping i dont get hurt again like i usually have in the past. Ive noticed in the beginning he was always calling me and sweet what not, now not as much hes always working and tired from his new job. Seems like theres always stuff on his mind and when i ask whats wrong he says theres nothing wrong just tired. He does act different around his friends, and when we're alone he'll be lovey dovey not as much though. I consider myself a pretty good girlfriend i can be pretty romantic write him poems/cook dinner , clean for him and i dont even live there.Buy him things so.. Should i be worrying? or is this normal?
2007-11-26 12:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid that this happens in every relationship-whether it's good or bad. I went through the same thing with my boyfriend and i felt the exact same way you do...it's like the fire starts to go out and it starts getting more boring...
My opinion is that you try to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Hopefully he will see what you're talking about and you can work it out from there. Another suggestion is that you two start planning fun dates and change things up more (that'll take away from boring factor).
I hope this helps.
Good Luck! :)
2007-11-26 12:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by mrazle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It's obvious that the initial infatuation has died down, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't love you still.
Sometimes life has a way of bringing you down to reality.
2007-11-26 13:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend says he is tired
2007-11-26 12:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by melinda k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal
2007-11-26 12:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋