i think he knows...what should i do?!?!!?! plz plz plz help me!?

Question

ok...theres this boy...i've had a little crush on him for about a month now...but i dont know if he knows who i am...well...

ok...

i told my friend-boy alex that i liked him who is friends with him, and he said he was gonna tell him, and tell him who i was.

i got done with cheer practice tonight, and he just came for drumline practice, and i was sitting by my self on the benches in my school, and he walked right past me and gave me a look...

yea...that look.

the look where i dont know if he does no, or hes just thinking "oh look theres some girl on the bench."

i was too afraid to say hi, so i just put my head down.

plz plz help me.

im soooooo nervous to talk to him, and i see him once every morning in front of my 1st hour class room, so i kinda cant avoid him.

if someone gives me an answer and it works i swear i will love you forever!

plz plz help me!!!

thank you!

♥

Answer 1

hehe; take a deep breath first!

if he knows; he knows! if you like him you like him and that is natural; no one is going to make fun of you for it

i know you're very nervous; but I think it'd be good for you if you spent some time building up a stomach to talk to him; just be like hey! how are you? do anything fun this weekend?.. just try to bring on a normal conversation without being too cheesy; maybe ask him if he wants to hang out sometime? it's not always the guy who has to make the move.

his look doesn't always mean much; he could have just been noticing you; it's good that he notices you

but ultimately; the best way to get to know him better is to talk to him and be friends. a relationship is best with a good background

Answer 2

Alright, calm down. Take a big Breath. Okay, so your friend said that he would tell him all about you to your crush, that is a pretty good start. Now what you need to do, is raise your head up high and go over and introduce yourself. Be yourself, or make it seem like a accident bumping into him. Or even say to him " So what 1st hour class do you have, I see you hear everyday." Now about that look, doesn't that mean that he NOTICED you. You are a beautiful girl and you have nothing to be nervous about. So next time you see him, don't put your head down, or pretend that you are looking for something in your bag. Keep your head up and just give him a smile and maybe say hi. If you are feeling really brave, get up off the bench and start walking with him. Ask him how is practice went, and how long he has been doing it. Be proud and self- assured. YOu are a gorgeous girl and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Tell me how it goes!

Answer 3

I can sympathize with how you currently feel. However, you have to understand that at some point in the future, you have to talk to this guy you have the crush on. Until the day that you have to , and since we don't know what his look means, you can use your friend Alex , this time in a more sneaky manner. Ask Alex if he has spoken to his friend ( your crush) about your feelings. If he has, and the guy likes you , then ask Alex to arrange an "accidental"meeting between the two of you, introduce you both, stay long enough to help you break the ice and feel comfortable alone with your crush, and then to make some sort of excuse and leave you both. You can also speed the process by mouthing the words "hi" in the morning.However, if Alex says he does not like you( at least romantically) then say nothing and move on with your life.But if your friend Alex has not said anything to your crush, then you can do what I suggested above. I hope it works for you and I wish you good luck.

Answer 4

Tell him ya so!! If he was turned off by it, he would have just ignored you and not teased you about it. Tell him, he'd be an idiot not to know you were crushing on him, and your just sorry it took you writing a note to figure it out. But you gotta say it with a smile and a little sexy attitude. Don't act weird or diffrent....Trust me, he teased you about it, it's ok. Now go ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I prefer the bold method, and just give him a big ole kiss and get it over with...Good Luck

Answer 5

The look to a guy is prob just a gas bubble. *LOL*
Ask your friend if he really told and if he did have him ask the guy what he thinks about you for exchange if he did tell you won't kill him!
If he didn't maybe you should try to talk one of your friends in 1st hour to talk to the dude and see if he's interested.
If he doesn't even know you and as I said before first of all, makes SURE he DOES notice you even if you don't talk to him. He might just want to be friends and that's better than nothing huh?

I hope it works out!
XOXO
TomTom8045

Answer 6

It's going to be fine. He was probably just looking because... there was a girl sitting alone on a bench. You were just so nervous around him that you though OMG HE KNOWS! i know the feeling. Just try to calm down when you see him and he won't suspect a thing.

Answer 7

just kick the flirting up a notch ( or in your case just saying hi) because its important that he knows that you like him! otherwise how else will you two ever go out together? make sure he knows your alive and if he does start to flirt. the worst that could happen is that he will reject you and youll get over it. so just pretend that you didnt tell anyone and he doesnt know and put on a brave face and say hi to him he might have actually noticed you but was just to shy to say anything.

Answer 8

This is silly. There is no problem here child. Relax, if this cranks you up, then when a real crises comes along you will explode in flame.
Sure your young and think this is a big deal, but really cool your jets. Be nice, be pretty, be you and he will come or he will go and you can still have your dignity.

Answer 9

well i know it's kinda hard to talk to somebody like him
first get a grip second find out from your freind Alex did he speak to him about it

if Alex did talk to him let him inform you on the details of his reactions to what he said

then have alex start a conversation with him and introduce
you to each other when you are ready for that of coruse


to help you get over your fears think on what you would like to say to him

Answer 10

ask ur friend Alex if he knows stuff and what did he say and then if your shy give it all your guts to talk to him and if your not shy then talk to him and see where that leads you to. Getting to know someone is fun and if he thinks that you might have a future together then your such a lucky girl and if not then you can be realy good friends and like I said talk to him.