Well me and my ex really didnt know each other and we got together like the third day of school and we have never knew eachother. Well I relly liked him but I don't why but we broke up and he broke my heart bad. I've been offered by many guys to be their girlfriend but I just don't want to get hurt again like the first time so what should I do?
2007-11-26 12:09:10 · 4 answers · asked by Britt♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well the thing you have to understand is that, if you want to be in a relationship until you find that one guy who respects you and loves u for who you are your going to get hurt! Every relationship that i have ever been in i look at as a stepping stone so when i get involved in my next relationship I wont deal with that bullshit the last person put me through! I know exactly how you feel but thats life until God finds that right person for you and trust me you'll know right off the back if the guy is serious ! Dont worry it may seem impossible but i found my love and it took a while ! Just be strong! Good Luck
2007-11-26 12:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one sure fire way to avoid getting hurt again and that is to go to an uninhabited island and stay away from all members of the opposite sex. You can tell that I am being facetious and not making fun of the obvious pain you are now feeling. You indicated that you did not know each other very well, don't know why you broke up, but you liked him and your heart is broken.I do not understand what you liked about him if you did not know him and how your heart could then be broken. Regardless, you can not isolate yourself from future love or romantic opportunities because of your fear of getting hurt.There is just no way to avoid that possibility as there is no way to guarantee that somebody stupid will not drink and drive. You take some precautions( like dating for a while, getting to know an individual better---their likes and dislikes, values, goals etc---)and then hope that they are the right person for you.That is part of what makes us human ,our ability to bounce back.Hence, I hope you will allow yourself to bounce back and fall in love again. In spite of the pain and confusion of love sometimes,it is a beautiful emotion.I wish you future joy and happiness.
2007-11-26 12:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young, it's going to happen over and over again. Welcome to the wonderful world of love, it's a hell of a ride but you wont forget the life lessons you willl earn to make you a great person.
2007-11-26 12:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by mysticbaby420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it again, get hurt, try it again, get hurt..etc. its what humans do. so remove yourself from loving entirely and you'll be fine. problem is thats hard to do.
2007-11-26 12:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by RedBluePenis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋