im in a situation where ive talked to this girl who calls me mean, touches me, ect. says my muscles are hot. HOWEVER, a new guy started working with us, and she asked me who he was, and called him a hottie. she hasnt really talked to him, and im confidnet she'll like my personality more. He isnt as muscular, but better facially looking. SHOULD I STILL BOTHER WITH THIS GIRL? shes known as kindve a sloot, im looking to hook up tho i kindve like her....
2007-11-26 11:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude thats funny.
you dont really care for her but you still want her.
Think of it this way, to you she is disposable and most likely a disease factory.
She is not like kleenex and meant to be used and thrown away.
Find someone you really like to hook up with and find a more emotional attachment.
Its much more rewarding.
2007-11-26 12:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you want to be with a person that is "hot" you must follow suit. Just remember that the first impression is the most important. In other words front yourself as someone you are not. But in the end this will end up not being a real relationship. So all in all you should just be flat out honest and basically buy the booty. But while your investing all this effort in getting with a person that is only outwardly attractive you will be changing your personality and becoming a shallow person yourself. If you only want the sensation of having arm candy you might as well get it over with at your age. But in the end the concept of having a hot girl is really finding a "High Maintenance" woman. You will eventually find that it is not a relationship but only you trying to please her. Sad but true. Yea models and celebrities are presented as perfection but they are people too and can suffer many faults and if they do they are more obvious. So why try and get into that class of people? If you are attracted to them you are perfectly normal that is why they are popular or were selected for the celebrity status. They are eye candy. You know I found out that in a hard way myself that the best person for me is a best friend of the opposite sex. Hope you are able to get the "hot" girl desires out of your system without losing yourself in the whole process and not getting hurt.
2016-05-26 01:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Kindve a sloot' is not the girl you want, anyway...not long term anyway. They tend to be 'high maintenance' and shallow, which you've already noticed in this one.
2007-11-26 11:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... There is a standard I suppose of what is considered attractive BUT what I might find attractive might not be to another... Personality does it for me... even a not so attractive man can be extremely attractive with a great personality....
2007-11-26 12:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world you you want to end up with a shallow girl? Go find someone thats going to treat you right.
2007-11-26 11:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes if she's shallow about a different aspect of a mate, i.e. bank roll. You designated a shallow girl, she's only looks skin deep or how fat your wallet is.
2007-11-26 11:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because even if a girl is shallow, if she is hot looking, she would still be attractive.
2007-11-26 11:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by tou2yaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should flirt with her more and tell a lot of jokes and make her laugh. Be more upfront with her and show her the real you. If she likes your body then she'll probably like your personality too.
2007-11-26 11:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bellanova123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a good guy, let her go with someone else and you should get someone who won't flirt with you and then forget about you honey!
But it's your choice anyway :)
2007-11-26 11:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by GreenT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a new girl who will treat you nice and will be faithful. There are also alot of girls who are also very attractive
2007-11-26 12:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica Wellls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋