Okay, so there is this girl that I'm going out with. The only problem is that I didn't mean to ask this girl out.. And, she goes to another school. We have known each other for along time, and I don't want to break her heart. There is this girl at my school that I like ALOT more!! And I want to go out with her because she likes me alot, and i like her alot!
Anbody with advice, please help me!! I'm desperate
2007-11-26 11:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by bigd8675 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be mean to the other girl and let this drag on especially if you don't feel the same way towards her, tell her the truth. I know it is hard to do but the longer you wait the more her feelings will grow towards you and the more hurt she will be in the end.
Be a man , do what is right.
2007-11-26 11:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by selkiekay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow lol how could u make a mistake of asking a girl out lol "ASKING" a girl out that you never ment to ask out.. anyways after reading this i now know its possible lol...
as for what to do .. politley tell her that sparks are just not there and ur not feeling her the way u felt before (even if u didnt have feelings for her at all at least say this so it wont look like u were using her) and then be like you think it would be for the best that u break up for a while.. then never talk to her again lol..
best of wishes
good luck!
and by the way if this girl that u are going out with truly likes you and the girl that u "like" may like you and ur still not sure .. then breaking up with that girl who really likes you may be a really bad idea...
2007-11-26 19:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to be honest with the girl you are going out with. She's going to be upset, but don't lead her on. That's the worst you can do. Explain the situation and don't lie. She can hear from someone else the truth and that would hurt her even more and end up causing problems in the future with her trust in guys. Good luck.
2007-11-26 19:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by ashleystarrxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, go out with the girl you want and explain to the other girl that going out with her is a big mistake and that it's so hard to maintain a long-term relationship
2007-11-26 19:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sakura Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be a tease, if you are not feeling the current girl you are just dating then be honest with her. Let her know that the connection you thought was there is not truely there and leave it at that! Hopefully she will understand since you are being upfront and honest with her!
2007-11-26 22:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest with the first girl, because if you don't you will hurt her worse when she finds out that you like another girl.and if she likes you alot then maybe you can still be friends.good luck.
2007-11-26 19:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay it out on the table, no sense stringing the 1st one along if you know it's not going anywhere.
2007-11-26 19:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. and tell her what happen and you didn't mean to ask her out. Hope she takes it well!
2007-11-26 19:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Amber Lynn <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh, it's obvious. Tell the girl your going out with that it's not working out it a nice way and go out with the girl in your school.
How did you not mean to ask her out but went out with her?
2007-11-26 19:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by snipe_d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to your girlfriend first and break up with her. then go to your crush and ask her out. even though your ex will be sad, but she will understand.
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-26 19:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋