My first and last break up!!?

Question

I dated this guy for 8 months. He was more than a boyfriend to me. We was just alike. Lately we was bumping heads. He wanted a baby I did not. I already have a 2 year old. We both in school and he lives a hundred miles away. We debated it back in forth and I finally decide to try. I tried one month and it did not work. He wanted to get marry then after I said I did not want to have the baby he wanted to push back the wedding. We kept arguing. But I thought we was just going through a rough time but I guess it was the beginnig of the end. Last week, we was tossing the idea of taking a break back and forth. He told me no we will work it out when he come home for thanksgiving. I said cool. Monday he came into town. At 4:30 a.m. he writes a message about taking a break. He had me thinking we was going to work it out. He was home when he wrote it. It broke my heart. Cause he said we was going to make that decision together. Two days later he tell me he has feelings for another girl.

Within two days he got feelings for her. But he swear he love me. How to get over it?

Answer 1

well, ignore him and move on to someone else. Take it one step at a time.

-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)

Answer 2

If I were you, I'd think that he's cheating on me and I won't trust him anymore!!! There are many guys out there! Enjoy yourself and find another boo