ADVICE PLEASE!!! why does he...???

Question

okay I have been friends with this guy for years.
this year everything is diffrent he stares at me at lunch.
he looks at me diffrently than other people.
he says my name soo much it's so weird.
he touches my arm or tries to knock my books outta my hand.

but...
he ignores me when me and my best friend walk with him,he only talks to her. FLIRTS EVEN.?
he will just totally ignore me.
Why is this??
if ya think you may know let me know please.
THANKS!

Answer 1

by Team AMP Member since:
June 11, 2006
Total points:
72 (Level 1) You’re the only one, thinking positively so PLEASE keep it up!!

You should have lots of hope!! None of these suggestions, seams to be thinking about you, nor how the real world works!!

The biggest suggestion is to try to win at her game, whatever that is!!!

It's not that hard to neither win nor change!! But you do not need to do anything at all to win! Moreover, care if it gose on!! This stuff happens all the time. Learn the real world facts first!!

FYI

You could wait until your winning and she is GONE! Or now take up more and more of his time with things he likes to do, hopefully with you. So it dose not happen as much in the future.

Most CHEAT!! Most of these do not last overtime! Feelings towards you, her and everyone change...good or bad all the time!! We all have relationships ups and downs. We all like change and tasting different things, especially women! Men in relationship cheat the most, but women have the most partners!! Realize the true facts of human nature and culture world wide. Not from fools on this website!!

He is still with you, so you are far ahead, for a lot of good reasons!! GET IT!! Think about the real world!! Everyone cheats!! So who are you going to get that dose not cheat!!

Who do, all of these people on this subject think they are kidding!! If all of these people and you think, this is not normal they are foolish!! All men and women get chased all the time by everyone!! The best of the best get chased, most of all !! All women go after the top dogs, especially at work!! So if he did it this time, we will do it again, moreover has done it many times to you and others in past relationships!! So what?? Ask most top dogs and they will tell you they get hit on all the time!! This is normal, for them?? Top models men or wemen get hit all none stop!! Moreover have lot os sex with lots of diffrent parteners. SO WHAT!!

So everyone needs to be 100% honest and grown up about this!! EVERYONE wants to cheat, moreover the majority, do it all the time!! SORRY to suggest the clear truth, but someone must tell the true about the real world!!!! I know that hurts alot, but don't let it!!

Think clearly about the real facts of life, that no body talks about!! We all make, keep, lose and change friends all the time. But we try to keep a few friends for life! Most people’s best friend is their partner! But every best friend has other friends, right!! SO it “IS” all the same!!
So, don't make a relationship about sex or just with one person ever!! Everyone needs to be more open minded, especially on this subject, wouldn’t you agree!!

The majority of us, make lots of new freinds and have sex with more than one person! This is normal and healthy for most of us!! In most cultures outsides of the USA, this is very normal!! This is why prostitution and porno is so popular world wide!! Prostitution, porno, and drugs are becoming more legal every day in the world and in the USA!! GET IT!! It’s time to change everyone’s thinking!! The world is not flat!! GET IT!!!

Only in the USA is cheating, prostitution and porno made to make everyone feel bad!! Luckily this is changing fast in the USA!! The USA will soon join the rest of the smarter world!!

But you have already won!! So who cares if he still has sex or sees her or not!! But honestly, I don't think he would ever have sex or talk with her, if he was to busy with you!! So keep him busy and on his toes all the time. Everyone has to do this with every friend, so you have to do the same. Most of all forget the old school ideas of giving up and moving on!!

Only move on, if you were happier with out him around at all!!

Live an honest and smart life that fully understands real human nature. Don't let fools with old, uneducated and religious point of view effect your thinking, feeling nor actions.

If you’re both truly happier together and everyone can see it, especially her, she is gone!!! Plus he will never ever leave you again.

Answer 2

I don't know how old you are, but young people (guys especially) are often confused when they first begin to have feelings for the opposite sex. Think about it, a lot of young boys think girls are "silly" or "yucky" and then all of a sudden they start to mature sexually and the way they feel completely changes. Of course, they have no idea how to approach a girl on a different level...they are used to teasing girls and doing silly things like knocking books out of their hands etc. They just don't get it for a while...when they think you aren't aware they may stare at you wondering what to do, or where the strange feelings are coming from...then when they get a chance to connect with you, they just don't have the skills.
Give him time, he will wise up.

Answer 3

I just think that he could be flirting with u or just trying to get to ur friend through u

Answer 4

It sounds like he is just doing that to try to make you jealous.... I wouldnt be too worried about it, but if you like him so much and that bothers you than maybe it is time that you tell him htat you have feelings for him....

Answer 5

he likes you but hes just trying to make you jealous

Answer 6

jealousy, probably.
or he's trying to tell you something...
dayum, thats a hard one

Answer 7

he does not know who he wants

Answer 8

he may like your friend . . . . . . . . . . . . . or you.