my dad wont let me sleep over my bffl's house on her b-day party this is the second year he wont let me!!!he said i cant sleep over anyones house until i am married!!!! and guess what else i am not allowed to wear shorts outside the house how cruel is that can u help me find a way 2 make him say yes!!! i already tried begging!!!
2007-11-26 10:22:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it seems your father may be one of those overprotective types, and perhaps he thinks he has good reason?
i know that most kids spend the night with their friends and wear shorts outside of home... but maybe because of your father's own, past experiences, he's scared you will be hurt or victimized in some way...
would your father allow a friend or two to spend the night with YOU? Maybe that is an alternative/solution to the problem?
i hope it works out.. i know how frustrating this is... take care.
2007-11-26 10:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a single working mother of four children, my oldest being 16. First of all, you must obey your parents (like in the ten commandments) no doubt about that. It seems you're so focused & upset on the answer "no", its harder to accept the fact & move on. I'm sure its for your own well being. Later when you're mature enough & understand more without putting up a fight, you can try voicing your opinions to your dad & work together and compromise.
2007-11-26 11:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by lovie808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start acting more mature and responsible for your actions.By the sounds of your whining maybe he knows that your not mature enough to have these privileges.
2007-11-26 10:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
so go to bffl's house and play a jokes on bffl's. and say to bffl's it is only for laughs.
2007-11-26 10:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by brandon b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to prove to him that you are resposible.
if he doesnt allow you to do things, take it as 'he is doing this for my saftey' more than 'hes doing this to ruin my life'.
eventually he will see your growing up and when he does then he will start to let you do teenager things.
trust me.....
i know
2007-11-26 10:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG What The Hell?
2007-11-26 10:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by djahlkfhjkha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
runnnnnn awayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-11-26 10:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋