2007-11-26 10:12:20 · 15 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you think so. An 11 year difference can be quite a bit, but if you are mature for your age, and he's still young for his, it can work out. The one thing to beware of, though, is that if he's young for his age, is it because he's young at heart? Or is he just immature? Or are you just really mature for 21? As long as you two can grow and learn together there's no reason why it can't be a wonderful relationship.
2007-11-26 10:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rebeckah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are being too harsh, i think that if she is going to be successful in life then she should dump the loser. If he is 32 and a manager of a grocery store then he probably wont amount to much more then that. The age gap is also quite big at that age, i agree with you.
2016-05-26 01:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 11 years older than me, I married him when I was 21. That was 33 years ago. Things are still great. But there again he is my Soul Mate, Sometimes it can work out other times it won't. It depends on how much your 2 are willing to work on the relationship.
2007-11-26 10:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter. If you are both happy then you are good. My parents are 10 years apart and haven been together for over 20 years. Do what makes you happy.
2007-11-26 10:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by some girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hum i dont think so. it is a big age difference but you are both adults. and if you really love him (or jus seeing where it will lead to) then it shouldnt matter
my parents are 9-10 years apart and they been married for 30 something years =))
i hope things work out for you...
2007-11-26 10:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all babe. Older men are soo much more mature and real. Ask urself, would u rather date and mess with an immature, broke "boy" who has no idea what he wants in life?
2007-11-26 10:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by mellisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friendis 19 and is dating a 36 year old. age is just a number, but love ignores that
2007-11-26 10:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by thewordplay1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not right now,,, He probably seems exciting to you now, thou stay together and someday in your life it will become boring,,, I talk with experience,,, These days life is pretty boring,,, He is ready for his recliner by 4pm,,, and I must fend for myself,,,,
2007-11-26 10:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Gringa_uno 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're adult, he's adult. Only thing you have to worry about is how you and he feel, screw whatever anyone else thinks, adults make their own decisions in life.
2007-11-26 10:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. JUst as long as you get along and like each other. more mature...
2007-11-26 10:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋