My partner says he wants no more children, we have a wonderful daughter that is 2 and I want to have another one in the next year or two.
2007-11-26 10:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Mady1 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
give it time, maybe he'll change his mind.
2007-11-26 10:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps give it time, he may change his mind in a year or two, then bring it up again and see what he says about it. You never know life's circumstances sometimes. Time will only tell. Maybe he wants to just spend time with his daughter right now, and get to know her as she grows up some more. You never know right?
2007-11-26 18:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more the merrier. Really!
Its actually easier to have children close in age, so I seriously would avoid waiting between kids. That way, they can play together, and you don't have to constantly give them attention, and they're happier to have a friend with them always. Makes them more confident children.
I say, watch Jon and Kate plus 8 and you'll want 8 more!
And don't you think if he was your husband, maybe he'd be more devoted to your desire to love more children?
2007-11-26 18:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by emzee20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a mother of one eight year old son and my man wants no more, I have wanted more kids for the past six years and I hoped he would give in but he has not, now i don t even want more kids, he wont change.
2007-11-26 18:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥NíKKí ♥ ♥GíRL♥ ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two girls and I really would like to have a boy...my hubby says no more children and I think I can deal with that. I love them but I don't feel finished yet....we will see...then I think less emotionally and I too prefere to not have more
2007-11-26 18:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by just duky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why he doesn't want more. Then you can address his concerns. Maybe he thinks having kids is taking you away too much. Maybe he has financial concerns. Maybe he feels overwhelmed.
Don't fight with him about it, but let him know that you want to have one more....and tell him your reasons for wanting another kid.
2007-11-26 18:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by beeswax 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just keep talking to him about it, but if he says no more, than no more. Both parents need to be in agreement if they are going to have more. If you do anything to trick him into getting you pregnant he'll know and will resent you.
2007-11-26 18:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't say "husband" so I'm guessing you're not married. I don't mean to sound rude... but maybe he doesn't want to set himself up to pay child support for another one if you guys don't stay together.
2007-11-26 18:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Libra lass 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont know either you can try and persuade him or you could just get pregnant I know it is kind of grimy but what else can you do.
2007-11-26 18:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋