We had been going out for about 5 months. Everything was great, we were always happy when we were together. The only possible problem could be we were moving kinda fast at the beginning, but I didnt think that was an issue since everything was so great still. two days ago, he told me that he thinks we are somewhat not compatible, and the relationship had not taken off for him, and ended it.
My question is although he keeps saying he wasnt feeling it, is it true? for we were always happy and obviously compatible. I know he didnt meet another girl, and we went into this wanting to have a serious relationship.
I have been going over it in my head, yet i still cant find one place or one moment where things didnt click.
Would you give me your sincer opinion? for I have turned to love this person. Thank you
2007-11-26 09:55:48 · 6 answers · asked by viola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel.....men can change like the wind. Who knows why? When someone can figure out a man please let us know!
Sounds like he has either met someone or rekindled an old flame....whatever reason....he no longer wants you. Sorry.
I wish they could be more honest when they start to feel this way, so it doesn't come as such a shock. Move on honey....I know it's hard. But he is no good to you if he no longer feels the same way. You can't force him to love you. But you are not alone. Good luck!
2007-11-26 10:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking from experience;
when you move to fast in the beginning, and take a short amount of time between meating, getting to know the person, and then dating, there is a tendancy to not get to know the person enough and vice versa. This can end up having the other person being different from you and the only thing thats keeping the relationship together for them is the intimate stuff. If they felt this way about you, even over a 5 month period, they probably felt that way for a long time.
2007-11-26 10:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Armada_Returns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, men will pretend to be happy and sincere with a women even though they reallyb don't feel that way just so they don't have to hurt that girls feelings. Sounds to me like this is the case here.
2007-11-26 09:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by angelajsk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously it wasn't the same for him. perhaps he was hiding how he felt. it didn't click for him. you didn't know what was really going on with him. your perspective is not the only one. sometimes parents think everything is cool with their daughter then she turns up pregnant (they were wrong). or you kid winds up in jail and you had no idea they were even smoking pot.
he was probably hiding how he felt. you need to make more effort to find out how things are going for the OTHER person.
2007-11-26 10:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a possibility is he was slowly starting to feel attached to you, and 5 months is the time where your naive and your life becomes that person...he probably realized if he went on he could be more likely to being hurt, or didnt want to commit cus his life is busy or just lost feelings, just get over it, GET OVER IT, this sh*t will easily fade away if your strong
2007-11-26 10:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by ncsmn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he wasn't happy, he wasn't. You're not doing yourself any favors by trying to deny the truth.
You may have been happy, but he obviously wasn't. Just try to move on.
2007-11-26 10:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋