Ok my nickname is Rana and i recently moved in next door 2 my so called aunt and boy since then its been noting but DRAMA..... i have a cousin Shyla she is 13 and her lil bro skyler, age 2. we heard they were getting evicted so we went to their house to help. and we were takin care of them 4 a couple days. her grama [my aunt] didnt like that so she had a coronary! long story short now they r at her house and she is acting like a 2 year old she is 65 years old, she calls me and my mom a b*tch and everything else so i called her an old hag, she keeps harrasing us should i get a restraining order against her or what?! she has been stressing us out and its driving us crazy i wanna hit her upside her head and knock some sence into her! please give me some advice!
2007-11-26 09:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by ReyMysterio_Fan619 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call Tyra.
2007-11-26 09:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your aunt is playing victim... badly. Given that she probably hoped that her daughter had left her house for good, and now has returned to her house with kids in tow... she probably feels put-upon. She probably didn't put the energy into rearing her kids to be responsible people that she needed to.
You can calmly explain to her that your family has been trying to help by looking after the kids and helping to shift the stuff from the place they were evicted from. If she doesn't want this assistance, you will gladly abstain. If she DOES want this assistance, she had better keep a civil tongue in her head. Then let her mull that over.
You can use the answering machine to screen your calls.
You can move to another place at the first opportunity.
A restraining order typically costs money unless you can prove that it is truly endangering abuse. If you call the police for a domestic disturbance, SOMEBODY will be taken in because they don't like people using them and wasting their time.
2007-11-26 10:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. well, you and your mom are just trying to help for the sake of the children. I think you should report her for harassment. She shouldn't act like a child when she is a senior citizen.
2007-11-26 09:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bellanova123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well knocking her in the head sounds good...lol
when she calls ignore,don't talk to her if she tries to get your attention she's not worth it to fight with hopefully this will settle down
2007-11-26 09:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by tazzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
old ladies are pretty grouchy...just slap her a couple of times, that should do it...lol
2007-11-26 09:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋