I found this in my b/f's closet?

Question

I was at my b/f's the other day and while he was taking a shower, I decided to check out his closet. I found a blow up doll that was fully inflated and it still had jelly around the exit hole. I am way too shy to confront him about this. Should I just go ahead and break up with him or should I overcome my shyness and confront him about this?

This has really got me stressed out and I can't stop shaking when I think about it. Please help me with some good advice. I need answers now.

Okay, I just want to say I was technically snooping. I was just making sure he wasn't hiding anything from me.

Answer 1

u should nt have so nosey thats what u get when u go snooping

Answer 2

Why were you snooping in your boyfriends closet anyway. I don't know why you would be offended by this? It's funny yes, but is it something to break up over?!!

Your boyfriend masturbates and sometimes he uses a blow up doll, this is not anything really major, I mean better that it was a blow up doll than a real woman in his closet.

If you want to break up with him you can make fun of him and hopefully he'll dump you.

If he is good to you in every way, then really this shouldn't be any of your concern. He has the right to his privacy and you violated it. How would you feel if your boyfriend found out something embarassing about you?

Answer 3

Wow!!! If it has you shaking to think about it ... don't confront him about it; you need to just break up with him. If you confront him, you are asking him to convince you that his intimacy with a blow up doll is okay. If you are really not okay with this extra curricular activity and it has you shaking to think about it ... just walk away. If it's something you feel you could live with --- then talk to him about it, but begin the conversation remembering what you saw and understand that you should not have been snooping anyway.

Answer 4

wow before he got with you he must of been pretty lonley LMAO lol umm.. well first you should know that your with him now so he wont have to go to the last resort lol.. secondly you need to also overcome your shyness i mean if u want a future with him you need to be more direct.. honestly.. talk to him and be open.. for starters you can start off by saying this to him "you know that blowup doll you have in your closet was it a gift from your friend or did you buy it" that way your not accusing him of doing anything "wrong" you just want to find out if the stuff on it is his.. if he says yes its his.. a friend gave it to him or he bought it.. its still his lol so u know that he did that.. as for what to do after you find out .. tell him in a confident girly way that he has you now so he doesnt even need that in the house..

good luck!

remember if you want the relationship to last you have to be more assertive.. dont let people walk all over you!

Answer 5

Depending on how you feel about the doll. Only if you are in to those kind of things. Other wise - RUN!

Do not feel bad you are in no obligation nor responsible for his bad habit. Since you are so stress and can't stop shaking. Take my first advise and leave him NOW.
Life is as simple as you make it to be. Dump HIM.

There are a lot of wonderful guys out there. Don't let this one destroy you. Don't allow him to talk his way into stay on the relationship. It is hard to kick a bad habit. Keep life simple dump him.

Answer 6

Oh dear god - that'll teach you to go raking around while he's in the shower! If this question is serious, talk to him - tell him his closet door was open a bit and you thought it was a real person inside or something. Have it out with him then go and puncture his blow up doll. Could be worse - could have been a blow up sheep though, lol.........

Answer 7

First of all, he'd probably be angry if he knew you were nosing around in his stuff. Maybe you should ask him if he owns one. If he says no, he's a liar. Break up with him, but not then and there (Otherwise he'll know that you saw it.). If he tells you that he does own one, you need to give him points for honesty. Then ask him more about it, like how often he uses it, what exactly he does with it. Tell him that it really bothers you. Point out that this is disrespectful to women. Think about his answers. Follow your heart. And if you really need to, come back with a follow-up question, tell us what he said, and we'll help as much as we can!!

Answer 8

I agree with HL. What on earth is this guy doing with a blow-up doll. I assume you two are having sex if you are there while he showers. You really need to talk to him. Then you will have all of the information you need to make an educated decision. I had a blow-up doll for a while. It cost me $90.00 for a bachelor party so I kept it and used it for three more parties. She died a virgin, however. I can't even imagine actually using one, I thought it was a big joke.

Answer 9

Oh dear, there is really no way to confront him about it without admitting you were snooping.
Do you really want to go out with someone who has sex with a blow up doll?

Answer 10

ahahahahahahaha that is the funniest **** I have ever read on this yahoo Q & A site. What a weirdo man that **** is just straight up faareaky. I guess you could say he's having an affair yeah? I mean what the hell do you get form a plastic doll that you cant from the reaL thing??!!!! I feel for you man. Damn thats some funny ****.

Answer 11

You were in the wrong by invading his privacy so if I were you I wouldn't let him know what you did. Let it go for now. In the future, when the two of you are together in his room, offer to hang up his shirt, put his shoes away etc. and the closet door will be opened while he is right there.