okay i have this boyfriend and i like this other boy and he said,"that once i realize that he can't give u {me} what i could give u {me}....and i really like him alot...i like him kind of more then my boyfriend....but i want to be with my boyfriend...i dont have the same feelings i had for my boyfriend i did before..and today he didnt walk me to 2nd period like he alwayz does..and today he gave me a kiss {but just a peck}....
okay but that other guy i like is willing to wait for me...and that makes it soo cute...but comfusing cuz i like both of them
help please
2007-11-26 09:37:37 · 16 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like both are ok but he second is also a gentleman. Which one would your Grandmother set you up with if she knew everything about them you do.
2007-11-26 09:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sid B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, i can tell ur young! When guys, any age say, "he can't give u what i can" more likely than not, he has freaky things on his mind, and if thats what you want go for it, but be careful cuz you might end the buzz of the day at school, meaning he won't keep what you guys do a secret..
I too was once attracted by the boys that were more thrilling and exciting, and "cute", lol, but beware cuz usually those are the ones that are jus after a good time.... but you'll learn these things with time, or you can be wise n consider the advice of those who have "been there".
Best of luck girl!
2007-11-26 17:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just hesitant to give up the title of "having a boyfriend" Don't worry about that. If you like this other guy more, go for him. Don't play w/ your boyfriend's emotions, that will only make it worse. If you are still confused, sit down and make two lists. First, of your boyfriend's cute AND annoying habits- and rate them from a 1 to 5 (5 being the best, 1 being the worst) Then do the same for the other guy and rate his cute AND annoying habits. After you tally up the scores, the higher score is the one you probably like more. I hope that helps you.
2007-11-26 17:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by hachiehitter4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well which 1 has the best personality for you? is 1 rude to you? which 1 treats you better? if u still love ur boyfriend alot then talk to both of them, but talk with all 3 of you. then you 3 can all work it out together. maybe u could date both if ur boyfriend and this other guy lets you. but if u don't feel comfortable with both of them then just take a break. tell your boyfriend u have to think about some things. then think, make ur decision, then date the 1 u want. i hope i helped u atleast a little bit!
2007-11-26 17:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Allison W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i can only imagine how you feel except i was the girl in the relationship when my boyfriend told me he likes this new girl and me at the same time. all i have to tell u is that u should take time to thikn about it, which im sure u have, u need to compare. which guy respects u more, which one do u feel would always be there for u, which one would make u a better person, etc. so mainly u have to choose. and yeah its not so fun but in the end itll be better for everyone involved cause itll allow the one NOT chosen to simply move on.
2007-11-26 17:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by sportygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do what your heart wants. If you feel you should break up with your your boyfriend and go for the other guy do it but if you feel you boy friend still loves you at least tell the other guy you have a boy firned and you can be friends(same if your dumping) that way none of the boys will be crushed.
2007-11-26 17:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to figure out who you can relate to more, and who in the long run would be better for you. If you really like your bf and are just having some lusty feelings for this so called really cute guy than maybe you should check into these feelings before you decide anything!
good luck!
2007-11-26 17:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, stick with who you truly like, its all down to you, basically your choice, think of it this way, do you really want to stay with your boyfriend and constantly think about being with this other guy, it might even piss of your boyfriend if he found out. If you just feel bad and don't want to break up with your boyfriend because you dont want to hurt his feeling...dont be, he will eventually get over it.
If in doubt flip a coin, leave it to fate....thats if you believe in it.
I do, it rules my life XP
2007-11-26 17:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are too young for a serious relationship. Tell your bf you only want a casual relationship and want to be free to date others as well. Then you can go out with the other one and see how it goes. Have fun.....don't tie yourself down....but be careful as I'm sure they have other things on their mind that you may not be ready for.
2007-11-26 17:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound rude to you but, your too young to be worrying to much about that stuff. Youl have many more Boyfriends to come into your life. But dont ever leave someone for someone else. It is always a mistake.
2007-11-26 17:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋