I have been having trouble with my boyfriend lately. Theres not that many sparks anymore but I love him so much. We have been fighting more but there will be though moments where I never want this to end, but there is a lot more moments where I just want to leave him. What should I do???
2007-11-26 09:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm really sit back and weigh the pros and cons
this is serious point to decide
you'd hate to continue when ur not happy
because you'll have a nasty breakup that will be a mess
but you'd hate to end it if you really do love him
try talkin to him about it and see if he feels the same way
try this too think about him being with another girl
painful yes
but if he dated a girl u knew
would u be jealous becuz you love him..? or what
all couples have fights though ecspecially if youve been dating for a while
just decide if he makes you happy most of the time or sad..if the percentage is more sad dump him
just talk to him and see what he says too
it just may be a little thing that a little separation for a while can fix
2007-11-26 09:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Constance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something different together. Or even spend some time apart doing your own thing! Absence can make the heart grow fonder. If you have been with your boyf for a while,dont expect sparks all the time,i feel exactly the same just now too.
2007-11-26 17:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divide a piece of paper in half and on one side write the good things about him and the bad on the other and see which list is longer. It may be that your self esteem is not as high as it should be and you love him because you want his love in return even when it may not be there. check out the link I will give you on self esteem and look at some of the other sections as well and you may find help there as well. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-26 17:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should just take a break from each other. Yall probably just need space to really realize how much you do love each other and what you love about them. You need to miss each other. Time away from each other makes the heart grow fonder.
2007-11-26 17:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by iluvmeushld2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. It's never worth the pain. If you're unhappy with him more than you are happy with him, it is not worth it. Don't stay around just because of how long it's been.
That's if you haven't tried talking to him first. Try to talk it over, and if things don't change, Leave.
Be firm.
2007-11-26 17:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by thecashmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋